• 💬 Hello my kinky friends,
    Summer is officially upon us! That means a bit more free time for many of us — and we’re hoping to spend it getting wonderfully kinky together. ☀️
    Inkwarden has put out a call for feedback and we’d love to hear your voice: click here.
    🎨 We’ve got some exciting happenings this month:
    ✍️ Join our Summer Writing Challenge and show off your creative spark.
    🎭 Don’t miss this month’s July Monthly Mischief — let’s get wild!
    🔥 Come watch or join our Live Friendly Debate — it’s sure to get... heated.
    🦋 And yes — a Live Play Session with Butterfly is coming soon!
    🎀 Want to help shape the community? Apply to be a Wonderland Curator here!
    xx Butterfly 🦋

Why I Love Findom

A lot of people are skeptical of Findom. Although I understand their reasoning, I don't accept the premise - that using men for money is immoral and/or that giving Women money is reckless. We don't need to go into the history of sexism, misogyny and how Women have been treated in this country. The fact of the matter is that women deserve to be spoiled, and men equally - if not more so - need to experience being submissive. I truly feel that Women (anyone who identifies as female/woman) are suited to lead families and society at large. But now I'm rambling.

When I was a high school football jock (I'm 6'3, 250 and built like a lumberjack), I would have never imagined being submissive. That is until I realized that I have a very small dick for my body type. Put bluntly, I'm too skinny to get the job done. This led me to doing whatever it took to please a Woman.

Although I love findom, I choose not to give my money to high-income sex workers. Not because there's anything wrong with sex work, but because generally - if they are any good at it - they have multiple pay-pigs in addition to their OF content. There are Women out there who are struggling to make it in this Christo-Capitalist-Fascistic nightmare. I'm sorry, but I don't want my money going just anywhere - I want my money to make a difference in a beautiful Woman's life. I want Her to feel empowered. I want Her bills to be paid. I want Her needs and wants to be met. I want Her to be spoiled. I want Her to be able to treat the girls to lunch or a night on the town.
 
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