When and why did you use a safeword? How did it go?
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When did you safeword?
- Thread starter Butterfly
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I safeworded most recently when you poured your pee in my mouth through a funnel. I loved it to be honest, but it also scared me because it was totally unexpected and I was worried it might make me sick. That didn't happen and in hindsight I'm actually sorry that I safeworded. I think it was irrational.
Safewording doesn't have to be rational.
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- Apr 8, 2025
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My dungeon outing last weekend had a bunch of safe wording.
The first was during my first attempt at being a pinata. I suspended myself and my Lady spank me. The basic parameters were that I was in charge of the rope, she would go easy on the hits, and I was going easy in the ties. I had labbed out the ties the night before, and everything went well until I was ready for the spanks, when we noticed my arms were right where she needed to be. They weren't tied at all, so I could move them for a bit, but that messed up the weight distribution, so my nice and easy tie turned out to be quite strenuous.
After that (and a bit of a break), we tried a normal impact scene; until my Lady safe worded because I started to bleed.
After that (and another break with some antibiotic ointment), I tried my hand at another self suspension which lasted until I tried going up, and heard a horrifying creeking sound coming from the rig. Looking into it, it seemed fine; but I was freaked enough to call the suspension off.
The first was during my first attempt at being a pinata. I suspended myself and my Lady spank me. The basic parameters were that I was in charge of the rope, she would go easy on the hits, and I was going easy in the ties. I had labbed out the ties the night before, and everything went well until I was ready for the spanks, when we noticed my arms were right where she needed to be. They weren't tied at all, so I could move them for a bit, but that messed up the weight distribution, so my nice and easy tie turned out to be quite strenuous.
After that (and a bit of a break), we tried a normal impact scene; until my Lady safe worded because I started to bleed.
After that (and another break with some antibiotic ointment), I tried my hand at another self suspension which lasted until I tried going up, and heard a horrifying creeking sound coming from the rig. Looking into it, it seemed fine; but I was freaked enough to call the suspension off.