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What's one kink you tried that you never thought you would?

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Spanking and impact play is something that I never thought I would try. It was a trigger for me because of past trauma. However, I had a sub who bought me some beautiful nipple clamps and it came with a free toy which happened to be a cheap little flogger. I started to play with it a bit and drag it across my skin. I love the tickly feeling of it. Eventually I hit myself a few times with it and also loved the sensation. So we started to incorporate it into our play time and it just grew from there! Now it is one of my favorites and the only thing that has ever put me into sub space.
 
Wearing panties, I never thought I would do it, let alone wear them in public! I didn't do much, but it was still a surprise!
 
I'm not big on needles. Every time I need to get a shot, or give a blood sample, it gives me that icky feeling like listening to nails on a chalkboard. My whole body rebels against this little steel thing entering my veins. Even when I see needles on medical shows and stuff it gives me the heebie-jeebies.

But when I went to an erotic convention, in the BDSM section, i saw a demonstration of a medical staple corset being applied, and it was so beautiful. I don't know if it was the elegance of how it looked, or the care with which the Dom did it, but I felt none of my usual needle aversions, just beauty. Afterwards he offered the viewers a staple in their arm, so they could know how it felt, and I got one. That is how I discovered my needle aversions don't apply to shallow skin penetrations.

And since then I keep getting sidetracked by other things, but a medical staple gun is on my wish list.
 
Hypnosis. Never considered it a kink or something I'd subject myself to until I met someone really into it. So far we could not make it work on me though :(
 
Catheters and sounding in general!

I had to get a catheter once for medical reasons and I was surprised about how much it turned me on... before that I could have never imagined sticking anything into that opening... now it just something I do all the time because it feels so good.

And catheters go well with diapers *blushes*
 
I've done plenty of kinky things in my time, but they were almost all of my choosing: sounding, A2m, wearing panties, taking risks in public, gay encounters, online exposure, etc.
The only thing I've ever done that wasn't my own choice or preference was my first ever golden shower. I was playing with a dominant woman at the time and we were both getting really excited. She loved to push my boundaries, test my limits, and that is exactly what she did this time. I was bound, my body was covered in humiliating writings, I had been well used except for my untouched erection. she told me she had decided what to do to me next and led me into the shower, she ordered me to lie down on the shower floor and stepped over top of me, telling me what she wanted to do as she did. Any misgivings or hesitations I might have had were long gone by this time, I would have done anything she wanted at the moment in time, and that is exactly what happened. She hit record on her phone, relaxed herself and started. After a few seconds she looked down at me, smiled, and said "Open your mouth!"
I almost came without contact as this sexy woman recorded herself pissing all over my humiliated, well-used body, and then ordered me to let her fill my mouth with her piss.
When she was done, she allowed me to sit up, smiling as her fluids ran out of my mouth and down my body, I leaned towards her and licked her wet pussy until she turned around to get the shower turned on.
 
Feet - i couldnt stand feet up until few months ago, until a Dom dared me to fuck my feet. It felt incredible, and the shame, the lust, the rush turned over the disgust. So it basically turned from my limit to likes. Even in my imagination, i love imagining myself licking/sucking someones feet, having my feet licked/sucked/fucked or even more degrading and beautiful having their feet on my face with my ass up on all fours while i have to look at them in the eyes.
 
Prostate play. As a straight guy butt stuff had been off putting. Once you realize the pleasure that area of the body can give you get over it pretty quickly.
 
Rimming. Had you asked me five minutes before I did it what I thought about licking someone's bum, I would have yucked! And five minutes later... oh boy... And it can be so many different things! It can be so "I want to eat you! I want to come inside your every hole!" Or it can be so kinky-sexy! Or it can be part of wonderfully humiliating subbing! Woof!
 
Nooseplay (but not really); we were staying in an apartment in York that had wooden beams and supports. They took me into the bedroom, let me see them throwing the rope over the beam and then I was blindfolded, made to stand on a coffee table and had the noose lowered over my head and the slipknot tightened... I was groped and edged and teased with the table being tilted... my shoes removed so the rope bit tighter into my neck... And then I was "accidentally" pulled off the table 😱

...and discovered that the noose was a separate piece of rope not tied to anything, just held up by the tallest of our friends 🤯
 
DomForYourSub007 said:
The title says it all you kinky folks! I want to know how naughty you can get, so much so that you've surprised yourself!
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In short: Blackmail.

I haven’t had a Dom who could physically tie me for quite some time. I used to love being restrained with leather belts, cuffs, and ropes, completely unable to escape until my Dom decided to release me. Even then, I would fantasise about being kept tied longer than expected, feeling truly out of control.

Blackmail, to me, is a kind of mental bondage. Losing control, feeling scared, helpless, stuck. So far, I’ve never allowed anyone to have quite enough information to actually blackmail me, but I’ve come dangerously close. It’s an incredibly hot thought.
 
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