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What's one kink you tried that you never thought you would?

Spanking and impact play is something that I never thought I would try. It was a trigger for me because of past trauma. However, I had a sub who bought me some beautiful nipple clamps and it came with a free toy which happened to be a cheap little flogger. I started to play with it a bit and drag it across my skin. I love the tickly feeling of it. Eventually I hit myself a few times with it and also loved the sensation. So we started to incorporate it into our play time and it just grew from there! Now it is one of my favorites and the only thing that has ever put me into sub space.
 
Wearing panties, I never thought I would do it, let alone wear them in public! I didn't do much, but it was still a surprise!
 
I'm not big on needles. Every time I need to get a shot, or give a blood sample, it gives me that icky feeling like listening to nails on a chalkboard. My whole body rebels against this little steel thing entering my veins. Even when I see needles on medical shows and stuff it gives me the heebie-jeebies.

But when I went to an erotic convention, in the BDSM section, i saw a demonstration of a medical staple corset being applied, and it was so beautiful. I don't know if it was the elegance of how it looked, or the care with which the Dom did it, but I felt none of my usual needle aversions, just beauty. Afterwards he offered the viewers a staple in their arm, so they could know how it felt, and I got one. That is how I discovered my needle aversions don't apply to shallow skin penetrations.

And since then I keep getting sidetracked by other things, but a medical staple gun is on my wish list.
 
Hypnosis. Never considered it a kink or something I'd subject myself to until I met someone really into it. So far we could not make it work on me though :(
 
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