Three topics for conversations

[nastyfkr]

I thought I'd see if I can kick off some discussions on 3 topics I enjoy and see where they go.

The first is when did sticking out your tongue in almost every photo become a thing for girls? Now don't get me wrong I like it, I think it's cute but it's something I've heard being discussed a lot lately. Especially over the Christmas period, older relatives bemoaning, why is your tongue sticking out in every photo you send me? What are your thoughts on this, does it bug you or is just playful fun?

Number two, body writing. I really enjoy seeing girls bodies with lewd, suggestive and even degrading words written on them. It's seems to me that often it's a very personal display of their submission or submissiveness. But not always, some seem to derive real pleasure and power from declaring their inner feelings on their skin. Then there's the way it's written, using different media, lipstick is common but some opt for sharpies and keep it covered up for days. So what do you think? Do you love it or hate it, have special ideas or methods you use?

And finally, stretchmarks and cellulite. I really love seeing these and I have no idea why, they just seem to enhance female curves. The extra textures add depth and contrast I think and making want to touch even more appealing. Seeing a belly peeking out between waistline and shirt bottom is always a treat especially if there's some lovely stretchmarks visible as well. It really doesn't matter where they are, boobs, belly, thighs and bum it's all extra decoration in my eyes. I'm really curious to hear what the girls have to say, does it bother you or are you proud of these marks? Do you try to hide them or happy to put them out there on display?

Hopefully one of these topics piques your interest, if so please jump in and share your thoughts.

 

[SilkAndSour]

I thought I'd see if I can kick off some discussions on 3 topics I enjoy and see where they go.

The first is when did sticking out your tongue in almost every photo become a thing for girls? Now don't get me wrong I like it, I think it's cute but it's something I've heard being discussed a lot lately. Especially over the Christmas period, older relatives bemoaning, why is your tongue sticking out in every photo you send me? What are your thoughts on this, does it bug you or is just playful fun?

Maybe it depends on the age of the person in a way? Maybe its just being just for that moment silly instead of "always" serious?
I find it sometimes overused, so i rather like when its spontaneous. Does it bother me? Not really.

I only put my tongue out in the picture if its for a task from a Dom or similar.
But i also know of people that love seeing tongue.

Number two, body writing. I really enjoy seeing girls bodies with lewd, suggestive and even degrading words written on them. It's seems to me that often it's a very personal display of their submission or submissiveness. But not always, some seem to derive real pleasure and power from declaring their inner feelings on their skin. Then there's the way it's written, using different media, lipstick is common but some opt for sharpies and keep it covered up for days. So what do you think? Do you love it or hate it, have special ideas or methods you use?

I looooooove Bodywriting. No matter if on me or others. Its exactly the way you described it "declaration of inner feelings" on my own body. Its beautiful, its honest, respectful toward my own self. In one way Art.

I use either eye-liner or sharpie. Sometimes even in color. I love having those special words on me. Reading them out loud, reminding myself that although i am the way i am, i am good and worthy. Also to myself.

Both sides should of course be respective - Dom and Sub - if i dont like hearing a word, like Whore, i wont even write it on my body.

"Special Ideas": Making people, and i dont mean only Subs, to write some positive words on their bodies, when they are negative toward themselves. As a penetrative mental reminder

And finally, stretchmarks and cellulite. I really love seeing these and I have no idea why, they just seem to enhance female curves. The extra textures add depth and contrast I think and making want to touch even more appealing. Seeing a belly peeking out between waistline and shirt bottom is always a treat especially if there's some lovely stretchmarks visible as well. It really doesn't matter where they are, boobs, belly, thighs and bum it's all extra decoration in my eyes. I'm really curious to hear what the girls have to say, does it bother you or are you proud of these marks? Do you try to hide them or happy to put them out there on display?

Hopefully one of these topics piques your interest, if so please jump in and share your thoughts.

This is something that was for me a reason for my depression - mostly because i kept hearing from others "you could lose a bit of fat in here" or "your body could be more firm".

I kept hearing it for years, on not so often moments, but moments that kept happening, and in the end made me feel disconnected to my own body and to my mentality. I couldn't even look at myself in the mirror. And in the end i didnt even recognise myself..

How did this turn around for me? - Kink and Bodywriting. Amazing kinky people who love curvy women, who kept reminding and showing me that curves are beautiful. And that so am I. Bodywriting that shows me that we are all different. Maybe even nasty, different from others, big and small, and in all shapes. But we are fkn worthy and good enough. For ourselves and always my own self on the first place. And then others. Only then.

I have curves. I have cellulite. I have a belly.
But those are my curves. My cellulite. My belly.

I wish that people wouldnt live in their shells. But rather enjoy them. Show them. Devour them. Caress and love them.

I could write a lot about this.. and its a topic that makes my blood boil when i see that there are people who want to make unrealistic dolls of others. But i wont go there today.

 

[nastyfkr]

I have curves. I have cellulite. I have a belly.
But those are my curves. My cellulite. My belly.

Exactly!!! This is you, all of you, and the total package is what makes you you.

Mainstream fashion and magazines portray women in one type, and that type is representative of a very small percentage of the population, why? It's not like guys (or other girls) don't enjoy other body types, they really do. So I'm here to bang the drum for all the nonconforming body types, all the different shapes and sizes but also the different skin types, freckles, birthmarks, stretchmarks, cellulite, rolls and love handles.

All these things together make you the uniquely beautiful person you are. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, and as long as your eye sees the beautiful you so will others because when you can truly love yourself it radiates out for all to see.

Edit: (I need to add this is the ramblings of a cis male and purely my opinion)

 

[SilkAndSour]

Just to make it clear, i mean this for all Genders. Its important to feel good and comfortable in your skin. The way to there is not easy, but its a way with which we can i think live at least mentally easier.