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Thread Creation Brainstorming Assistance - Seek help with making a thread

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From time spent on previous forums I have had quite a lot of fun creating various add threads, both for myself and others. With lots of new people to the site, I felt like opening a thread to help you make your own threads would be useful. As I am owned and with a good smattering of physical limitations myself these days, I can live vicariously through all of you!

I will put a list of questions for you to answer to help me gauge what sort of direction you are looking. This thread isn't “I will write a thread for you” but a space for discussion about ideas, for gathering ideas from people and to help you produce a thread which will be engaging. If what you write does inspire me, I am more likely to be able to help you further. Whether that is me helping write some of it, helping suggest keywords/milestones/tasks, or simply helping prompt you into developing the idea further.

Anyone is welcome to contribute to the thread brainstorming. If you have some inspiration to suggest formats, tasks etc for what someone described, feel free to add to the conversation

Do you have a theme/goal in mind for it? Any toys/gear/kinks you want to focus on?
- this could be hey I want something to help me do x, craving tasks on y kink, I want to celebrate Z with being kinky, the keyword threads are hot and I want one of my own etc. I want to have a day fully organised where i'm made to feel like a slave, motivation with fitness by kinkifying it, whatever you have in mind, I will be happy to assist where i can

How long do you think you want the thread to go on for
- Can help gauging numbers for tasks a little easier, how long do you want people to be able to add, do you want it possibly extending with milestones etc

How far through developing the idea are you?
- Give me an idea of what you have in mind already. The more information you have on what you want, the easier it will be to work with you

Do you have something unique or different you would like to do with your thread?
- If you have a concept that you aren’t sure how to put into practice, or something weird/quirky about it that you aren't sure how to set up/explain, tell me, maybe i can help you clarify what you are looking for

What parts of the thread creation are you looking for the help to be mostly with?
-If you tell me hey, I got basically everything worked out, but I need help fleshing out tasks/milestones, that's cool, I can help work with you on what fits and what feels like sane amounts. If you are earlier in the thread construction process, what's your current stumbling block for writing it?

The more thoroughly you can answer the questions, the easier it will be to help you with it!
 
Do you have a theme/goal in mind for it?
A pun about "welcoming the new girl" despite me being member 26. (I'm celebrating starting on estrogen!)

Any toys/gear/kinks you want to focus on?
Impact. I have a bunch of hitty things, and can make a list of ones that are good for solo use. Some "favorites": small silicone flogger that stings a bunch and leaves mean marks. Wooden spoon (its a classic for a reason), jackhammer popper (wooden bean on a rubberband in a holder. just one snap leaves a beutifal kiss mark)
How long do you think you want the thread to go on for
Not sure. Maybe two weeks to start, with a possibility of extensions (maybe indefinantly for as long as interest is maintained enough to keep hitting them)

How far through developing the idea are you?
Not at all. Just some gimmicks that might not actually make sense for an add thread.

Do you have something unique or different you would like to do with your thread?
I have two gimmicks that I've been trying to work into a thread. The first is a "beat the new girl into a grounding" add thread, where I try to keep up with the assigned spankings/task, but the numbers get out of control so much that I am forced to take a "punishment grounding" to get them back to a manageable level, from which point I will continue. The punishment grounding would be a period of time where I am locked in my walking closet (possible with some other additions). I'm thinking the "getting out of control" bit would involve some form of interest accumulation. Maybe interest is maintained seperatly, must be payed first, and can be reset to 0 by taking the punishment.
The other gimmick probably wants to be a dice dare. But I am thinking of having an empty matrix, where I need to assign the keywords people post to cells within the matrix, and lines give the task. Maybe every location in a line gets hit by every implement in the line, for the some of every number in the line? This would need some mechanism to allow me to add new lines as the total number of words to assign increases; and maybe a mechanism to let adders reduce the number of lines I have available. Maybe also something to force me to lock in decisions as I go.


What parts of the thread creation are you looking for the help to be mostly with
Whatever I come up with will need help balancing. And, if I actually go with any gimmicks, keeping it simple enough to be understandable, fun, and spammable for adders.
 
A pun about "welcoming the new girl" despite me being member 26. (I'm celebrating starting on estrogen!)


Impact. I have a bunch of hitty things, and can make a list of ones that are good for solo use. Some "favorites": small silicone flogger that stings a bunch and leaves mean marks. Wooden spoon (its a classic for a reason), jackhammer popper (wooden bean on a rubberband in a holder. just one snap leaves a beutifal kiss mark)

Not sure. Maybe two weeks to start, with a possibility of extensions (maybe indefinantly for as long as interest is maintained enough to keep hitting them)


Not at all. Just some gimmicks that might not actually make sense for an add thread.


I have two gimmicks that I've been trying to work into a thread. The first is a "beat the new girl into a grounding" add thread, where I try to keep up with the assigned spankings/task, but the numbers get out of control so much that I am forced to take a "punishment grounding" to get them back to a manageable level, from which point I will continue. The punishment grounding would be a period of time where I am locked in my walking closet (possible with some other additions). I'm thinking the "getting out of control" bit would involve some form of interest accumulation. Maybe interest is maintained seperatly, must be payed first, and can be reset to 0 by taking the punishment.
The other gimmick probably wants to be a dice dare. But I am thinking of having an empty matrix, where I need to assign the keywords people post to cells within the matrix, and lines give the task. Maybe every location in a line gets hit by every implement in the line, for the some of every number in the line? This would need some mechanism to allow me to add new lines as the total number of words to assign increases; and maybe a mechanism to let adders reduce the number of lines I have available. Maybe also something to force me to lock in decisions as I go.



Whatever I come up with will need help balancing. And, if I actually go with any gimmicks, keeping it simple enough to be understandable, fun, and spammable for adders.
Hazing the new girl? i'm sure as you/we develop it further something thematic will come to mind

Are you thinking of allowing them to direct the implement/location per post? probably adjusting numbers for each in terms of how severe the toy is is useful

2 weeks, as you will probably be pretty popular maybe something like a week extension per 250 posts or so?

I can definetly look into suggesting a mechanic for the grounding. Something like you can use it at any time to half the amount, but maybe each time you use it it gets worse somehow? Do you want some restrictions/rules to be put into place as ongoing grounding punishment when you are getting behind? I did a similar mechanic with princess where she had some minimum amount of hits and would be grounded if she hadnt completed a set amount where she had some restrictions put in place.

Hmmm could do 3 different dice rolls per post/per x posts in the thread where one dice determines amount, one the implement, and the other the location (if there are any toys where some locations arent viable you could reroll the location dice maybe) It could be a lot of dice rolling to do for each but also could work, I see in your toy spreadsheet it lists over 20 toys, maybe pick 20/12 of them for each of a dice side, do similar with body locations, and again another dice for the impact amount. If you use your own toys, having a different dice to roll for each/ online say first is toy, second location, third amount. You could make a table showing location and implement, and do a tally in the table of the total amount owed there for each. (Just chcked and max size insertable table on here is a 10x10, so maybe using a spreadsheet is a solution for that)

Maths is a strong suit, and happy to help with balancing, although balancing it to be deliberatly overwhelming to make you need to do the grounding punishment could be fun
 
I have two gimmicks that I've been trying to work into a thread. The first is a "beat the new girl into a grounding" add thread, where I try to keep up with the assigned spankings/task, but the numbers get out of control so much that I am forced to take a "punishment grounding" to get them back to a manageable level, from which point I will continue. The punishment grounding would be a period of time where I am locked in my walking closet (possible with some other additions). I'm thinking the "getting out of control" bit would involve some form of interest accumulation. Maybe interest is maintained seperatly, must be payed first, and can be reset to 0 by taking the punishment.
The other gimmick probably wants to be a dice dare. But I am thinking of having an empty matrix, where I need to assign the keywords people post to cells within the matrix, and lines give the task. Maybe every location in a line gets hit by every implement in the line, for the some of every number in the line? This would need some mechanism to allow me to add new lines as the total number of words to assign increases; and maybe a mechanism to let adders reduce the number of lines I have available. Maybe also something to force me to lock in decisions as I go.

Hmmm could do 3 different dice rolls per post/per x posts in the thread where one dice determines amount, one the implement, and the other the location (if there are any toys where some locations arent viable you could reroll the location dice maybe) It could be a lot of dice rolling to do for each but also could work, I see in your toy spreadsheet it lists over 20 toys, maybe pick 20/12 of them for each of a dice side, do similar with body locations, and again another dice for the impact amount. If you use your own dice, having a different dice to roll for each/ online say first is toy, second location, third amount. You could make a table showing location and implement, and do a tally in the table of the total amount owed there for each. (Just chcked and max size insertable table on here is a 10x10, so maybe using a spreadsheet is a solution for that)
Do you have in mind what sort of keywords you may want in the thread? The matrix concept is cool, do you have ideas for what sort of things you would be having in there? Maybe allowing something like on your 25/50 whatever post you can suggest something for either a column/line. Maybe if there is an amount that if you do more than (maybe fixed number or over a percentage of ones owed end of that week) you earn the ability to block a column/line for X rolls, depending ofc on if you want the matrix to be its own keyword/after X amount posts etc, so you can try and block the "bad" options if you put a bunch of meaner ones in a particular line, with the obvious associated danger of if you roll that mean line when it isnt blocked it

With interest, have each week any owed ones increase by some percentage. Depending on how out of hand you want it to get/scale of numbers you intend dealing with, something like each sunday at midnight whatever the current owed amount gets increased by 1-5%, but fine tuning that percentage may be needed depending on popularity and how many hits each post adds.

I think its a cool concept, responded earlier when a bit tired and hadn't really honed in on the expanding matrix vs a more simplified variant with the dice rolling purposal. Definitely something with interesting potential
 
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