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    xx Butterfly

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It has become clear to me that I won't be with you much longer. I'm not saying I'm leaving, but I see a ban incoming, as I have trouble adapting to the regime here. So I wanted to take my time to leave this quick thank you to all the people I interacted with on getDare over the past year while I still can.

It all started with a simple add thread. My fiancé NeedyBastard was about to become 40 and he had a birthday add thread, to which I wanted to add. So I joined. It was fun adding. I expected to never really use my profile again after it was over, but things happened and I made quite a bit of friends. I changed a lot over these months. I'd discover kinks I never heard about, try new things I never thought I liked, and attained new guts and did things I never thought I'd do, but the most surprising development was that I actually formed a emotional connection with some of the people there! I actually cried slightly when I saw getDare go down over the loss of a few friends, 1 in particular. (Hi, bestie!) There were many times I wanted to leave the site because it ate up all of my free time, but I just couldn't leave you guys alone. Never did I see a community where the vast majority of the people are so amazing! Did you ever have it happen that you get in over your head and really need some mercy? Just tell them your feelings and see what happens. You'll find that 99 out of 100 kinksters have a heart of gold. Ever felt lonely and just needed someone to talk to? Most kinksters are very sensitive people and great listeners. If I had to name 1 attribute you guys have that I really praise is your understanding when I messed something up, had a bad day, or had subdrop. You guys ROCK! 🤟 And for this I wanted to thank you. Blessings be upon thee! 🙏

So thank you for being great people! You know who you are!
 
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Leaving the community will be completely your choice, either through the way you act/respond, or whether you decide it is not the right place for you. I am not sure what you mean by "regime". Yes, we have rules and we expect our members to follow them, but I also feel like I go out of my way to be as fair as possible when enforcing those rules. I don't think you are going to find an online (or otherwise) community that does not have rules or behavioural standards that they will hold their members to. I don't think ours are that strict and mostly focus on being respectful of each other.

I am so glad that you have you had such an amazing experience in the kink community and I hope you have been able to reconnect with anybody you were not able to stay in contact with when the site went down. It was a really sad day for most and I am happy that some people have been able to reconnect in ways outside of gD. Those connections are so valuable. And hopefully those connections can continue regardless on whether you stay on KW or decide this community is not for you.
 
It would be very sad seeing you leave this place. You have been and you are a vital part of this community with so many great moments many of us shared with you.
Everything you said about being kind, having a heart of gold and always listening can be 100% reflected back to you. The fact that all those people showed this to you, also says a lot about you. Around here we say "As you shout into the forest, so it echoes back out".

We (and I think/hope I speak for many people here) have been very lucky to get to know you and I sincerly hope you stick around.
Thank you for being so amazing as well!
 
I only just joined KW so I have no idea what's been going on, but I am really sad to read this. For one thing, you've been one of my favorite people on GD and I would miss you, because you've made the community a brighter, wittier, smarter and also more arousing place. For another thing, if such a young, small, growing website is already having some of their best people infighting (for whatever reason and whoever's fault it is or is not), it's not a very encouraging sign for the rest of us.
 
I really hope You don’t leave! You are an asset to any community You choose to be a part of, and I’ve enjoyed interacting with You. If you would like to talk, you know how to reach me, and I hope you will stay in touch regardless of what happens.
 
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