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Story behind a name

I needed a name for getdare some 15+ years ago. Coming up with something original yet unique to kink so it didn't track back to anything else I do online was important. I am a man and I like spending time out in the field away from the concrete and glass hustle of the city, so...

Original? Surprisingly, yes. I haven't seen any other fieldmans, or fieldmen, around the rest of the Internet.
 
Mine is based on the Greek god Zephyr. I was thinking of more gender neutral names because I was considering changing my name IRL (I ended up deciding to keep my birth name) and I’m also a huge classic myth nerd. The longer version of my username is zephri.
 
Some 7 years ago I felt the urge to get to be ordered from female dom. Tell me how to spank myself and hurt my nipples. But I was not sure I really was submissive. So my user name reflects that.
I was quite specific for what I wanted from a dom. So I paid a few for writing sessions for me to play. Some of them was really good. I learned how to turn pain into pleasure. Or really how pain can give you an extraordinary orgasm. I got addicted to that.
I also tried online sessions. But had no pleasure from it. Satisfying a Dom is not my thing.
Today my own Dominant side is stronger, and I picked up writing sessions for other. Enjoy it.
 
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