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Repost - because all of it still resonates with me.

Sir.

Probably the most repeated word for a Sub like me, this word can start to feel (as you might have heard before) as the name of your Dominant in your brain from how often you've had to call them that, and kind of lose the intensity it once had over time.

I am luckily a bit of a mindful person between my journaling and meditating habits, so I can see the machinations of my mind as they happen. This Sub remembers just how powerful this word once felt, and will not let routine, repetition or the passage of time take that away.

Every now and then I just sit with my mind and feel that word, all it means to me, how lucky I am to have someone I can call that and truly mean it, and to summon the memory of the intensity it felt when it was new so that I never forget it.

Being owned is truly a privilege, feeling submissive towards someone a gift, a very precious one, having that person that inspires you devotion and respect without any doubts is not something everyone gets to experience and I remember what it is like not to have that, it feels lonely, empty.

One of the most important things in my philosophy of living is to always be aware of and grateful for our blessings, feeling that word and all it means to me always goes hand in hand with that gratitude.

Yes Sir, no Sir, please Sir, thank you Sir, ... it's not mindless robotic repetitions, each one of them is just a reminder of a delicious state of being.

So let it be that. To every Sub, never forget how fun it is just that you have someone to call Sir everyday. Let it resonate in you and be that reminder of how contained and controlled and owned you are, don't just say it because you have to - or maybe you do, because you have to follow the rules and be a good girl after all.
 
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