S.O.S BRAT IN NEED OF HELP S.O.S

[snoek]

Hi all!

Just recently my inner brat is coming out of of its shelf. And I think it can use some help, advise.. maybe some inspiration...

So for all the pro, Intermediate or beginner brats, or anyone who has dealt with them. What is your advise?
Is there anything that helped with discovering your brat?
Who can be the worst influence on me? Winner gets.. something!!

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[picaboo]

If I'm understanding this right you want to be a brat toward "the brat princess". That sounds like it will go great for you nothing could go wrong at all I'm sure of it.

 

[snoek]

If I'm understanding this right you want to be a brat toward "the brat princess". That sounds like it will go great for you nothing could go wrong at all I'm sure of it.

Yeah! Right? Thanks for reassuring me!! But I'll go and test that Theory some more soon

 

[The Brat Princess]

If I'm understanding this right you want to be a brat toward "the brat princess". That sounds like it will go great for you nothing could go wrong at all I'm sure of it.

Your understanding is entirely right, depending on what my little fish like pigeon parrot douse, maybe. So far her bratty outbursts have been perfectly silly and funny. That I like (: But things did go a little wrong yesterday all be it accidental. But yes, bratting a far bigger brat.... what could go wrong indeed

 

[The Brat Princess]

To be helpful I will add some more information to the pot. Snoek is exploring bratting for the first time, she has not felt the pull towards being bratty with anyone else. As I am sure most brats will understand she is currently at the point in the journey where she has ideas and a desire to be bratty (from my understanding both to make me laugh and for some punishment aswell as funishment) but is nervous about not overstepping boundary's and doing something that will cause actual upset. I have set aside a few times and made it clear she is free to be bratty in those times to allow her to explore knowing that it is a time it is perfectly allowed to do so. Her rules are also layed out in a way that makes it perfectly clear which can be messed with and if they will get punishment vs funishment and which ones are never to be deliberately broken. I have also let Snoek know that in the event I am having a day where I cant deal with bratty behavior she will be in no trouble for it, I would just inform her I cant that day and I don't see any reason Snoek would continue after that.

So far Snoek has explored a LOT with the bratty stamping feet and saying no when told to do something (particularly putting tiger balm on clit, yesterday that escalated to 'I cant find it' why could she not find it? she was looking for it with her eyes closed . She has also started to explore looking for loop holes in rules leading to her using a rule in a way it was never intended to be used and breaking it at a time it shouldn't. The rule in question is that Snoek is to be out of bed within 30 minutes of her alarm sounding (otherwise she will lay there and fall asleep again ) so what did Snoek do in the middle of the afternoon, get into bed and set an alarm so it would go off and she would still be in bed 30 minutes after. Even I missed that little loop hole in the rule lol.

I believe the main area Snoek is struggling is that she sometimes has ideas but is just unsure about following through on them and it going bad and also having the idea after the task is already complete and it is too late to use it.

 

[snoek]

To be helpful I will add some more information to the pot. Snoek is exploring bratting for the first time, she has not felt the pull towards being bratty with anyone else. As I am sure most brats will understand she is currently at the point in the journey where she has ideas and a desire to be bratty (from my understanding both to make me laugh and for some punishment aswell as funishment) but is nervous about not overstepping boundary's and doing something that will cause actual upset. I have set aside a few times and made it clear she is free to be bratty in those times to allow her to explore knowing that it is a time it is perfectly allowed to do so. Her rules are also layed out in a way that makes it perfectly clear which can be messed with and if they will get punishment vs funishment and which ones are never to be deliberately broken. I have also let Snoek know that in the event I am having a day where I cant deal with bratty behavior she will be in no trouble for it, I would just inform her I cant that day and I don't see any reason Snoek would continue after that.

So far Snoek has explored a LOT with the bratty stamping feet and saying no when told to do something (particularly putting tiger balm on clit, yesterday that escalated to 'I cant find it' why could she not find it? she was looking for it with her eyes closed . She has also started to explore looking for loop holes in rules leading to her using a rule in a way it was never intended to be used and breaking it at a time it shouldn't. The rule in question is that Snoek is to be out of bed within 30 minutes of her alarm sounding (otherwise she will lay there and fall asleep again ) so what did Snoek do in the middle of the afternoon, get into bed and set an alarm so it would go off and she would still be in bed 30 minutes after. Even I missed that little loop hole in the rule lol.

I believe the main area Snoek is struggling is that she sometimes has ideas but is just unsure about following through on them and it going bad and also having the idea after the task is already complete and it is too late to use it.

Thank you so much for this! You put it into words really well (:

And had a smile while reading it back hihihi, my sister started asking what I was doing

 

[Butterfly]

I love to brat but also never want to overstep and actually get into territory where I am truly upsetting my Dom/partner. So I usually tell them if they use my real name (or another word), then it gives me a bit of a warning that they have reached their limit. If I continue to brat, then there will be consequences and by continuing, I am fully accepting those consequences. It helps make me feel a little safer, especially when starting to explore that dynamic with somebody for the first time. So that would be my advice.