*~*~*~* RULES *~*~*~*

[Butterfly]

Welcome to Kinky Wonderland!​

Kinky Wonderland aims to be a fun, safe space for you to explore your inner kinkster. We know you are excited, but please take a minute to read all our rules before jumping in!

* General Forum Rules *

• You must be 18 years old to sign in and participate. Any users found to be under the age of 18 will receive an automatic ban. Any users found to be knowingly interacting with users under the age of 18, will receive an automatic ban.
• One account per person. If you create another account for the purposes of dodging a ban, or to bump your own posts etc., your accounts will be banned.
• Do not share your account information with other users (passwords), this is your private information. If you choose to share this information, you are responsible for anything that happens on your account, and could find yourself banned if any misconduct occurs.

* A note on consent*

• Consent is the most important!
• Do not post photos of somebody who is not you, unless you have explicit permission.
• We will not allow content that displays acts of non consent. This means posts about how to secretly use your sisters clothes, or stealing your roommates toothbrush, leaving photos out in public for strangers to find, touching strangers, etc. will be deleted.
• Do not create polls, posts or threads about another member without their consent.

* Content *

• Be kind. Be courteous. Be respectful. We will not tolerate any personal attacks. If you have a problem with another user or a mod, deal with it privately or report it.
• Advertising for services, or external websites will not be permitted. This includes Onlyfans accounts or any pay-for-play services.
• Asking for money or gifts in any capacity is not allowed.
• Nudity: We allow images that contain nipples. However, we do not allow any images or links that contain genitals. Please censor all genitals (including ass holes) from your photos before posting. This includes animations, artistry or other renditions. This also includes all private communications through the site as well.
• Please use the private messaging system to post content that might offend others.
• You are responsible for your own safety and conduct while interacting with other users and tasks on this site or in person. However, we do ask that you adhere to the principle of safe, sane and consensual. Any posts that are deemed to be outside of those principals or that promote illegal activities, will be removed.
• A person on the internet can be whoever they want to be. While we encourage you to be your true self, we cannot stop you from lying about your age, gender, etc. It is your responsibility to vet and verify those who you interact with.
• We do not allow the following types of threads:
  • Control my screen (it is unsafe to let a stranger control your screen without major precautions)

* Anon Whispers *​

• This section is meant to be anonymous so that you can truly confess your darkest desires, ask questions you may be embarrassed to ask, or even just give a shout out to your secret crush. However, please note that because it is anonymous, there will be stricter rules and moderation for this section. Admins (Butterfly, Inkwarden) can see who has posted as a way to keep everybody safe and following the rules. However by default we cannot see messages and the feature is only turned on for one specific thread when investigating a report.
• Do not spam with posts. While it is up to mod discretion, we do ask that you try to limit your posts to once per day.
• No disrespectful, rude, or bullying messages will be allowed.
• Do not name a member by their username in your post.
• Posts need to be approved by a moderator so please allow some time before your post shows up in the forum. Duplicate posts will be deleted.
• Mods reserve the right to delete any inappropriate posts.

* Blogs *

• Posts requesting tasks, personal ads or fictional stories should be posted in the corresponding section of the website, not in the blog section.

* Personals *

• Please put some effort into your personal ads.
• You may bump your ad or post a new ad once every 2 weeks. Spamming the ad sections will result in removal of your post and a possible ban.

* Stories *

• The story section is meant for original pieces of erotic fiction. If you did not write it, you cannot post it.
• Any writing involving minors or illegal activities will not be permitted.

* Chat *

• No spamming.
• Do not harass other users

* Voice Chat *

• Be kind, be respectful
• Do not harass other users.

* Reporting *

• If you see a user or post that breaks the rules, please use the “report” button and provide an explanation to the mods so that we can take action.
• Providing users with helpful guidance is permitted, however, there is no need for backseat modding. If you see a thread that breaks the rules, report it.
• Mods will not be referees. We will not get involved in individual games, challenges or threads. We are all adults here!

* Disclaimer *

• Mods reserve the right to edit or remove any post that is found to be inappropriate even if the post does not violate any of our site rules.
• Mods reserve the right to use their discretion to issue an infraction or ban for anything that is not covered in the above rules.
• Usernames cannot be changed once your account is created. Please take this into consideration when registering.
• Users have the ability to edit their own content, however, you cannot delete a thread or post. If you require your post to be deleted, please reach out to a mod for assistance.

 

[Inkwarden]

~ Keeping Our Community Safe ~​

Keeping our community safe is one of the highest priorities for the Kinky Wonderland staff. This is why we take a firm stance on content involving nudity and why we are careful and deliberate with many aspects of how the site is run. Our goal is for Kinky Wonderland to be a fun, welcoming space where people can interact, discuss their kinks, and enjoy themselves—safely and responsibly.


From time to time, we receive reports about posts or user behaviour, and we handle each situation as it comes. One issue that is absolutely non-negotiable is age.


Being 18+ is not only a site rule, but also a legal requirement. Everyone interacting on this site must be a consenting adult. While we are not here to police who you choose to roleplay as or present yourself as (for example, gender, race, or fictional personas), it is your responsibility to vet who you interact with. Our responsibility is to ensure that everyone on the site is of legal age.


Currently, a birthdate is required during registration, and anyone under 18 will be blocked from registering or using the site. That said, we recognize that age can be falsified, and a simple date field is not foolproof.


Because of this, we have an additional system in place. If a user is reported as potentially underage, we may ask them to verify their age through a trusted third-party verification service. This service uses facial analysis to estimate age. These requests are not made lightly—each verification costs us money, but the safety of the community comes first.


If you ever receive a message from Butterfly and me (and it will only ever be us two) with a verification link, please understand that this is done solely to protect the community. It is not an accusation, nor a judgment. We simply need to confirm that everyone here is a consenting adult.


We do not receive or store any personal information from this process—nor do we have access to it. We are only informed whether the verification succeeds or fails.


Thank you for your understanding and for helping us keep Kinky Wonderland a safe space for everyone.