I love giving people dares. Creative dares that are hopefully interesting, fun or challenging and unique. Not something like "spank your ass 100 times" but things like this and this. Its something I love about this site (and gD before it). I love the challenge (of thinking of something) and the excitement of hearing about others doing the dare.
Unfortunately, many people don't report. They may say they like the dare and will do it, but then after that its radio silence.
Please note that I am referring to people who explicitly asked for a dare which I then gave. Either through PM or on on a dare request thread, but especially the former.
And also I am specifically referring to more thought-out and creative dares. Posting keywords in add-threads for example I don't really count as dares. Though it is much appreciated to read a report on those threads too after they end.
Of course there are many valid reasons for not doing a dare. The dare might be too hard, or not really within your likes and limits, although I always try to take those into account. Or you may simply not like my dare. That is all fine.
However if you agree to actually do my dare or at least attempt it. If you accept it. Then I DO expect a report. It's the reports that make my time worthwhile and this way we both get something out of it, not just you enjoying (or not) the dare.
Because also if you didn't enjoy it, or tried it and failed, or in hindsight thought it would not work for you after all, I would also like to know.
The report does not have to be super detailed. It doesn't have to be Shakespeare in style. It does not have to include pictures. Ideally I would like the report to be proportional to the dare: e.g. short and easy dare === short report. But at least tell me something about how it went and how you felt. And also tell me if you failed or could not do it for whatever reason. Definitely do write more than: "I did your dare. Thanks."
The report also doesn't have to follow quickly. I know it may take longer until you get a chance to do a dare. But it that case it would be nice to get a heads-up on that too.
Failure is NO problem for me and nothing to be ashamed of. Unless we agreed something specifically about punishment I won't punish you or give you any kind of consequence for failing a dare.
All I ask is that you tell me about a dare that I took time and effort into creating for you and that you agreed on doing.
Of course there can still be reasons why you really can't report, but in most cases I see no reason not to report.
Again: I won't punish you for failing a dare. But if you don't report I may not give you a dare again.
Unfortunately, many people don't report. They may say they like the dare and will do it, but then after that its radio silence.
Please note that I am referring to people who explicitly asked for a dare which I then gave. Either through PM or on on a dare request thread, but especially the former.
And also I am specifically referring to more thought-out and creative dares. Posting keywords in add-threads for example I don't really count as dares. Though it is much appreciated to read a report on those threads too after they end.
Of course there are many valid reasons for not doing a dare. The dare might be too hard, or not really within your likes and limits, although I always try to take those into account. Or you may simply not like my dare. That is all fine.
However if you agree to actually do my dare or at least attempt it. If you accept it. Then I DO expect a report. It's the reports that make my time worthwhile and this way we both get something out of it, not just you enjoying (or not) the dare.
Because also if you didn't enjoy it, or tried it and failed, or in hindsight thought it would not work for you after all, I would also like to know.
The report does not have to be super detailed. It doesn't have to be Shakespeare in style. It does not have to include pictures. Ideally I would like the report to be proportional to the dare: e.g. short and easy dare === short report. But at least tell me something about how it went and how you felt. And also tell me if you failed or could not do it for whatever reason. Definitely do write more than: "I did your dare. Thanks."
The report also doesn't have to follow quickly. I know it may take longer until you get a chance to do a dare. But it that case it would be nice to get a heads-up on that too.
Failure is NO problem for me and nothing to be ashamed of. Unless we agreed something specifically about punishment I won't punish you or give you any kind of consequence for failing a dare.
All I ask is that you tell me about a dare that I took time and effort into creating for you and that you agreed on doing.
Of course there can still be reasons why you really can't report, but in most cases I see no reason not to report.
Again: I won't punish you for failing a dare. But if you don't report I may not give you a dare again.
