Questions about virginity

[Butterfly]

I want all the dirty details!

How old were you?
Who was it with?
Where did it happen?
What happened?
How long did it last?
Was it an overall good experience?
Would you change anything about?
Any advice to those who are still virgins?

For those who are still virgins ...

How old are you?
What is the reason you haven't? Personal choice, lack of opportunity?
Are there any barriers to losing your virginity that you are struggling to overcome?
How do you imagine losing your virginity will go?
Are you anxious about your first time?
What is something you would want to ask others who have lost their virginity?

 

[MessyAshy]

I didn't!

 

[Guv'nor]

I havent...

 

[Butterfly]

I didn't!

I havent.

I edited the top to add some questions for those who haven't.

 

[Guv'nor]

For those who are still virgins ...

How old are you? 31
What is the reason you haven't? Personal choice, lack of opportunity? A mix of both to be honest, I couldnt be sure which it is mostly down to
Are there any barriers to losing your virginity that you are struggling to overcome? Yes, my own brain! It wont let me feel happy or wanted, and I find intimacy very difficult so any time I get close it is hell for me in my mind
How do you imagine losing your virginity will go? Badly, if ever
Are you anxious about your first time? Yes, as it will be a disaster as you arent meant to be a virgin by now
What is something you would want to ask others who have lost their virginity? Why bother? It doesnt seem worth it

 

[Butterfly]

I want all the dirty details!

How old were you?

I was 19 when I lost my virginity

Who was it with?]

It was with my long term boyfriend. We had been together almost 6 months.

Where did it happen?

It happened at my moms house. We were in the room next to hers lol

What happened?

So we started playing "just the tip" and after a few nights of this, I really just had to concede that I was no longer a virgin.

How long did it last?

Most of the time it was just a few teases. No orgasms with him inside me those first few times because we hadn't really planned on us having sex.

Was it an overall good experience?

I guess it was ok. It wasn't too painful because we went slow. It also wasn't super romantic lol

Would you change anything about?

I definetly would have had a better location

Any advice to those who are still virgins?

Go slow, use protection, don't have high expectations

 

[MessyAshy]

For those who are still virgins ...

How old are you?

31

What is the reason you haven't? Personal choice, lack of opportunity?

Lack of opportunity or social skills

Are there any barriers to losing your virginity that you are struggling to overcome?

There's the question of "do I just get it out of the way whenever, or do i wait for someone special?"

How do you imagine losing your virginity will go?

Probably awkwardly.

Are you anxious about your first time?

A little bit.

What is something you would want to ask others who have lost their virginity?

Fuckin how? What did you do? Where did you go? Not even the sex bit, the finding a person to do it with part.

 

[BearBehavingBadly]

How old are you? 29
What is the reason you haven't? Personal choice, lack of opportunity? Mainly lack of opportunity but also super socially awkward and worried about embarrassing myself and the unlucky other person
Are there any barriers to losing your virginity that you are struggling to overcome? Yeah, finding someone who i could confess my worries to
How do you imagine losing your virginity will go? Honestly, embarrassing for both involved and never seeing them ever again but think it will give me a bit of confidence
Are you anxious about your first time? Absolutely yes
What is something you would want to ask others who have lost their virginity? How do i go about finding someone and getting through the stigma that I'm a virgin without them thinking I'm a loser

 

[Masterfulsensation]

How old were you?
14
Who was it with?
First girlfriend
Where did it happen?
In my bed
What happened?
Honestly can’t exactly remember, nothing special, just went a bit further and a bit further together until we actually had sex
How long did it last?
Again don’t remember, 5-10 minutes probably
Was it an overall good experience?
Hell yeah
Would you change anything about?
No I don’t think so
Any advice to those who are still virgins?
For girls…just make sure there’s mutual feelings and you’re not just being used. For guys, just get it out of the way, there’s no prizes for being shy or “waiting for the right person”

 

[owlart]

For those who are still virgins ...

How old are you?

51

What is the reason you haven't? Personal choice, lack of opportunity?

Lack of opportunity, mainly through lack of confidence.

Are there any barriers to losing your virginity that you are struggling to overcome?

Mainly the lack of confidence,

How do you imagine losing your virginity will go?

If it ever did, then undoubtedly badly, as probably most people's first time is.

Are you anxious about your first time?

No, by now I'm resigned to being forever single so it's not really as issue any more.

What is something you would want to ask others who have lost their virginity?

Do you wish you had waited longer / done something different?

 

[Fat Man]

I want all the dirty details!
For those who are still virgins ...

How old are you?

31

What is the reason you haven't? Personal choice, lack of opportunity?

Personal choice. I don’t have much of an interest in it.

Are there any barriers to losing your virginity that you are struggling to overcome?

No

How do you imagine losing your virginity will go?

Based on the women I’m around very violent and painful for everyone involved.

Are you anxious about your first time?

I wouldn’t say anxious. I just don’t have interest in it.

What is something you would want to ask others who have lost their virginity?

Nothing.

 

[Butterfly]

Based on the women I’m around very violent and painful for everyone involved.

This made me snort and laugh out loud