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Male nudity

Spd138

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Hello all,

So I’m sure it comes as no surprise to anyone but males stripping off their cloths to show off their naked bodies is kinda common. But, what isn’t common is people that want to see the males naked. So when males go to an appropriate place to get naked or post nudes they often get no attention, comments or feedback.

Now from a male (and for others like me) that do like to get nude for all to see, what can help us get the attention we are looking for. I always want to be respectful and not send unsolicited nudes but even in place like fetlife where nudes are welcome the response for most males is almost nonexistent.

So maybe some fans of male nudity can share what kind of pics get your attention. Perhaps if we share what works/stands out we cannot only get more attention to those brave men stripping down but also improve the content of male nudity!!!
 
I am also willing to strip down and pose for any of the good ideas to see how they work
 
Playing with different color setting:
- works quite good - such as black/white, or black/white but only one specific or special thing is in colour.

Mirror:
- of course while respecting your own boundaries, you dont even necessarily have to show much, but finding a good position or even reflection of your body might make the picture stand out

Clothing, Material:
- as in choose a nice kind of material that you might have at home, like a blanket or silk 😏, cover a part of your body with it and try to test out what would look good to you

Playing with light:
- as in turn off the light, and try to use the light from outside such as street lamps or some smaller lamp that you might have at home, that will only "light up" (not on fire), a specific part of your body
- candle, if youre scared then try battery-kind of candle, turn off the light, put yourself into a special position and play with the light and shadows on your body and your Environment

Combination of everything i mentioned at once.

Please respect, that i do not want to receive any kinds of pictures from anyone. But am very happy if i managed to help others get an idea.

Have fun and please be responsible ❤️
 
Playing with different color setting:
- works quite good - such as black/white, or black/white but only one specific or special thing is in colour.

Mirror:
- of course while respecting your own boundaries, you dont even necessarily have to show much, but finding a good position or even reflection of your body might make the picture stand out

Clothing, Material:
- as in choose a nice kind of material that you might have at home, like a blanket or silk 😏, cover a part of your body with it and try to test out what would look good to you

Playing with light:
- as in turn off the light, and try to use the light from outside such as street lamps or some smaller lamp that you might have at home, that will only "light up" (not on fire), a specific part of your body
- candle, if youre scared then try battery-kind of candle, turn off the light, put yourself into a special position and play with the light and shadows on your body and your Environment

Combination of everything i mentioned at once.

Please respect, that i do not want to receive any kinds of pictures from anyone. But am very happy if i managed to help others get an idea.

Have fun and please be responsible ❤️
Thank you, thre is a lot of good advise and tips. I’ll play around with some of these ideas and see how they are received. I will also respect you don’t want any pics, I only send pics to people who consent or places where it is welcome to post.
 
Hello all,

So I’m sure it comes as no surprise to anyone but males stripping off their cloths to show off their naked bodies is kinda common. But, what isn’t common is people that want to see the males naked. So when males go to an appropriate place to get naked or post nudes they often get no attention, comments or feedback.

Now from a male (and for others like me) that do like to get nude for all to see, what can help us get the attention we are looking for. I always want to be respectful and not send unsolicited nudes but even in place like fetlife where nudes are welcome the response for most males is almost nonexistent.

So maybe some fans of male nudity can share what kind of pics get your attention. Perhaps if we share what works/stands out we cannot only get more attention to those brave men stripping down but also improve the content of male nudity!!!
Hey @Spd138, I dont think you are right. I think whe a male is toned and fit -- and the picture focuses on physique, that looks 🔥.

But when the body is flabby and hairy - and the picture focuses on weird sexual things, then its 🤮

It's no different than a guys take on a woman's naked pic.

Also, my personal preference are more artistic poses, as a model would do, instead of a guy just holding his 🍆

And lastly, I feel there are just more - like way more - guys than girls on these sites, so thr amount of likes may also be balanced.

This is perspective if a girl. I am curious what gay guys look for in naked pics of other guys. 🍿
 
Hey @Spd138, I dont think you are right. I think whe a male is toned and fit -- and the picture focuses on physique, that looks 🔥.

But when the body is flabby and hairy - and the picture focuses on weird sexual things, then its 🤮

It's no different than a guys take on a woman's naked pic.

Also, my personal preference are more artistic poses, as a model would do, instead of a guy just holding his 🍆

And lastly, I feel there are just more - like way more - guys than girls on these sites, so thr amount of likes may also be balanced.

This is perspective if a girl. I am curious what gay guys look for in naked pics of other guys. 🍿
I know that this is your opinion, and that many would probably agree.. but did you ever see a Hucow girl? They are beautiful, curvy and there is just so much to touch and squeeze. Id rather have a guy, which i can also hold in place and squeeze his body parts, that doesnt necessarily have a six pack (lets say a dad-body), than someone with a fully built up six pack. Because that is something realistic at least in my opinion.

But then again, that is just my opinion and the way i like it.

I think it also depends on the position people are. And the way people present themselves.
 
Hey @Spd138, I dont think you are right. I think whe a male is toned and fit -- and the picture focuses on physique, that looks 🔥.

But when the body is flabby and hairy - and the picture focuses on weird sexual things, then its 🤮

It's no different than a guys take on a woman's naked pic.

Also, my personal preference are more artistic poses, as a model would do, instead of a guy just holding his 🍆

And lastly, I feel there are just more - like way more - guys than girls on these sites, so thr amount of likes may also be balanced.

This is perspective if a girl. I am curious what gay guys look for in naked pics of other guys. 🍿
This some pretty good insight. I do try to keep fit but maybe I'm not paying enough attention to my poses, lighting, background etc. I also like your prespectice on the amount of male nudity. Maybe i need to do more (follow the suggestions on her) and improve the quality of my nudes.

Thank you for the advise
 
I know that this is your opinion, and that many would probably agree.. but did you ever see a Hucow girl? They are beautiful, curvy and there is just so much to touch and squeeze. Id rather have a guy, which i can also hold in place and squeeze his body parts, that doesnt necessarily have a six pack (lets say a dad-body), than someone with a fully built up six pack. Because that is something realistic at least in my opinion.

But then again, that is just my opinion and the way i like it.

I think it also depends on the position people are. And the way people present themselves.
I agree with you 100% not all good nudes are from the super fit. I had a six pack at a time but now rock more of a dad bod. I think like many suggested it the pic quality and have to standout to the large amount of male nudes out there.

Thank you
 
Hey @Spd138, I dont think you are right. I think whe a male is toned and fit -- and the picture focuses on physique, that looks 🔥.

But when the body is flabby and hairy - and the picture focuses on weird sexual things, then its 🤮

It's no different than a guys take on a woman's naked pic.

Also, my personal preference are more artistic poses, as a model would do, instead of a guy just holding his 🍆

And lastly, I feel there are just more - like way more - guys than girls on these sites, so thr amount of likes may also be balanced.

This is perspective if a girl. I am curious what gay guys look for in naked pics of other guys. 🍿
I do like your request for the opinion from some gay men. My nudes are for all to enjoy and I value the opinion of all who may view them.
 
I quite enjoy looking at pictures of naked men, but they definitely need to be my type. I like fit, I like hairy, but neither are a must. Well groomed and taken care of, flattering angles and lighting can help a lot. The grooming is something I cannot stress enough. Especially straight men seem to struggle with the concept quite frequently. Completely overgrown bush that hides their cock, patchy hair growths in awkward places, some guys post ass pics when they clearly didn't even wipe???? I won a bet once against a straight guy and he was supposed to be my cam slave. He takes off his pants and there was shit all over his ass. I am so sorry for ladies that have to deal with straight man hygiene. (blocked him and moved on. I cannot teach a grown man how to wipe). Also, clean up your room. Hoarder is not a sexy look.

Back to pictures though. Dick pics are rarely enjoyable (needs the context of the whole body), and if you take the pic from the front and it points straight at the camera it will also look awkward. You can pose differently to get your good angles. Lean a bit back and you get less stomach folds, turn to the side to get a bit of pec definition and it shows off more of your cock. Even if you're not fit, you can look a lot better if you put some effort into pose and light.

As for getting attention, I think it's a bit trickier. Many kink and especially exposure sites are mostly frequented by straight men with a humiliation kink. Those will not pay a lot of attention to pics of other men. You have a few gay men who will gravitate to the more fit men, and only a few women (who tend to be less strict about body types than men). Many of my female friends have mentioned they prefer reading porn rather than watching it. I am curious if that adds to the lack of female visitors to those sites.

If you want to be seen and get attention, you are better of finding a group that is attracted to your specific type. Reddit has "gonewild" subreddits for almost everyone (dadbods, bears, alternative guys, older guys, twinks etc.). If you post in a general gonewild subreddit, you will only get attention if you are conventionally attractive.
 
I quite enjoy looking at pictures of naked men, but they definitely need to be my type. I like fit, I like hairy, but neither are a must. Well groomed and taken care of, flattering angles and lighting can help a lot. The grooming is something I cannot stress enough. Especially straight men seem to struggle with the concept quite frequently. Completely overgrown bush that hides their cock, patchy hair growths in awkward places, some guys post ass pics when they clearly didn't even wipe???? I won a bet once against a straight guy and he was supposed to be my cam slave. He takes off his pants and there was shit all over his ass. I am so sorry for ladies that have to deal with straight man hygiene. (blocked him and moved on. I cannot teach a grown man how to wipe). Also, clean up your room. Hoarder is not a sexy look.

Back to pictures though. Dick pics are rarely enjoyable (needs the context of the whole body), and if you take the pic from the front and it points straight at the camera it will also look awkward. You can pose differently to get your good angles. Lean a bit back and you get less stomach folds, turn to the side to get a bit of pec definition and it shows off more of your cock. Even if you're not fit, you can look a lot better if you put some effort into pose and light.

As for getting attention, I think it's a bit trickier. Many kink and especially exposure sites are mostly frequented by straight men with a humiliation kink. Those will not pay a lot of attention to pics of other men. You have a few gay men who will gravitate to the more fit men, and only a few women (who tend to be less strict about body types than men). Many of my female friends have mentioned they prefer reading porn rather than watching it. I am curious if that adds to the lack of female visitors to those sites.

If you want to be seen and get attention, you are better of finding a group that is attracted to your specific type. Reddit has "gonewild" subreddits for almost everyone (dadbods, bears, alternative guys, older guys, twinks etc.). If you post in a general gonewild subreddit, you will only get attention if you are conventionally attractive.
Thanks for the feedback. I think these are all very important parts of taking nudes. I will ensure you grooming and hygiene are top on my list. I keep shaved and groomed on the regular. I never let things get too long but if I know I’m taking pics or if I’m like to be getting naked I shave, trim and groom. I also shower in the morning and at night. I would also never walk around with a shitty ass.

The suggestions you make for poses I’m definitely going to try and see if it get my nudes more attention. I might have to go back on Reddit and try the groups you mentioned. You post also make me miss in my younger days when I would go on cam for people. Never for money just the thrill of being naked and making someone happy
 
I quite enjoy looking at pictures of naked men, but they definitely need to be my type. I like fit, I like hairy, but neither are a must. Well groomed and taken care of, flattering angles and lighting can help a lot. The grooming is something I cannot stress enough. Especially straight men seem to struggle with the concept quite frequently. Completely overgrown bush that hides their cock, patchy hair growths in awkward places, some guys post ass pics when they clearly didn't even wipe???? I won a bet once against a straight guy and he was supposed to be my cam slave. He takes off his pants and there was shit all over his ass. I am so sorry for ladies that have to deal with straight man hygiene. (blocked him and moved on. I cannot teach a grown man how to wipe). Also, clean up your room. Hoarder is not a sexy look.

Back to pictures though. Dick pics are rarely enjoyable (needs the context of the whole body), and if you take the pic from the front and it points straight at the camera it will also look awkward. You can pose differently to get your good angles. Lean a bit back and you get less stomach folds, turn to the side to get a bit of pec definition and it shows off more of your cock. Even if you're not fit, you can look a lot better if you put some effort into pose and light.

As for getting attention, I think it's a bit trickier. Many kink and especially exposure sites are mostly frequented by straight men with a humiliation kink. Those will not pay a lot of attention to pics of other men. You have a few gay men who will gravitate to the more fit men, and only a few women (who tend to be less strict about body types than men). Many of my female friends have mentioned they prefer reading porn rather than watching it. I am curious if that adds to the lack of female visitors to those sites.

If you want to be seen and get attention, you are better of finding a group that is attracted to your specific type. Reddit has "gonewild" subreddits for almost everyone (dadbods, bears, alternative guys, older guys, twinks etc.). If you post in a general gonewild subreddit, you will only get attention if you are conventionally attractive.
Would love to know more
 
While I agree with @Aurario that hygiene is Very Important, pubic hair is not something to be ashamed of. But people tend to be very judgy about looks when that's all there is to go on, and nude photos are literally only about looks. And I believe @WildCallie is correct about men being more active on these types of sites. Men tend to be both less attracted to men and more attracted based on looks. Not that women dislike looking at attractive people, but it's not their primary way of finding someone. I'm a queer man and my primary attraction is also not visual. I enjoy a wide variety of bodies, but find it hard to look at nudes that are trying too hard to be sexy. I love looking at the male form, but I enjoy it more artistically even when I find the guy sexy. I'm sorry I don't have better answers for you.
 
I like to see character of the person more than his thing. Welll... context is important. If there was story leading to that, then of course he is super hot.

What I mean by character is something like a clear idea of his purpose of his shot. Because that is him right? And if I resonate well with his mood, then I would feel connected to him.

As for physiques.. I like some toned body but it is a 50 50. I do not find those muscle body builders hot. I actually find them a little too excessive for my taste.

I think man and women like each other bodies the same. And it is context that makes the difference and I think it is more expressive because the female body is just so. Softer, smoother, etc.

If a man skin is soft and smooth, then he looks sexy just as well.

As for muscles, I think it is the same except, women and men are a little different. I enjoy toned women, but not super toned like those muscles builders. The same with men. I also like skinny men and women, as long as they are not super boney which makes it creepy.

The polarizing thing between men and women is that men looks so much hotter with wrinkles than women. Because a mature man feels so stable and strong.

Something like that...
 
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