Likes/Dislikes/Limits

[kamita721]

Likes:

• Impact
  • If it involves hitting me, I probably will like it. More so if it is thuddy or leaves pretty marks. My prefered spot for hits is my thighs. Depending on implement, I can do my ass as well, but it is more challenging to reach.
• Pee holding/desparation
  • Letting go after a long hold is almost as good as a nice orgasm. If I can't take it anymore and involuntarily wet myself, all the better.
• Begging
  • I'm not great at begging, but I really enjoy it when the circumstance are right. In particular, I enjoy it when the person I am begging is activly engaging with me as I am begging, and when (I feel like) there is a real chance that I could get what I want if I just plead hard enough.
• Being treated unfairly
  • Did I forget to cross a T in my report for you? Throw it out and make me do the task again. Nothing puts me in a submissive headspace quite like my superiors treating me unfairly.
• Being punished
  • Yes, this means assigning me tasks from my dislikes when I've done something wrong or not to your satisfaction. There does need to be some reason for the punishment, but it does not need to be a particuarly fair reason.
• Bondage
  • Obviously, I'm limited in how much I can do to myself, but I'm pretty good at self bondage. It generally works best if you give me a high level description of what you want, and let me work out the details of how to make it happen
• degradation
  • Insult me. Call me names. Basically anything to verbally put me in my place. If you see me disagree with any insult, please put me in my place with my YES YOU ARE pm dare.
• humiliation
  • This does not get around the public limit. But you can humiliate me alone, in the forum, or in a (consenting) kinky discord I am already a member of.
• Diapers
  • Being in a wet one is gross. But also humiliating. And, wearing one has the effect of making it much harder to hold my pee.
• Edging
  • This can certainly get out of end. But a few edges to get me worked up generally enhances most scenes
• Games/Challanges
  • Of either the kinky or non-kinky variety. If I fail, make it feel like it was my fault.
  • Current game: Timberborne!
• Messy
  • Messy tasks need to be involved enough to justify the clean up time. But they are a great way to get me into an uninhibited headspace.
• Pee Play
  • Make me wet and smell of piss.
• Teasing
  • Get me all worked up sexually without any release. Generally, "no release" goes until I have calmed down from the scene. Any longer than that gets into denial, which I do not like
• Wax
  • Start a fire and pour it onto my skin. A nice combination of pain and pleasure all in one.

Dislikes:

• Anal (plugs)
  • I can handle plugs being in for a decent amount of time. I just don't like it.
• Forced orgasm
  • Pretty much any task where I am required to orgasm. For me, orgasms are just a means to make the horny go away. At best, a required orgasm is a chore. At worse, it is a way of saying "no more playing", which can be more frustrating than denial.
• Denial
  • Orgasms are a way to make the horny go away. When I want the horny to go away, I am not a fan of not having that option
• Nipple Torture
  • Pinching, freezing, clamping. If it hurts my nipples, I may do it, but I won't enjoy it.
• Bodywriting
  • Mostly, I think I don't like this because I am emberassed at how bad illegible my bodyriting is.
• CBT
  • If I don't like hurting my nipples, I really don't like hurting my cock and balls.
• Clothespins
  • Pinchy and hurty. Once they are on, there is no sneaky thing I can do to make them hurt less.
• Cold
  • Showers. Ice. Being naked when my HVAC is set to "sleep" mode. If I'm shivering, I'm sad
• Corner time
  • This is just boring, and I hate being bored. If it goes on for too long, I *will* start to sing.
• Deepthroating
  • I need to be careful not to upset my jaw with this. But even when I don't, the tears and gag reflax this causes are no fun.
• Electric play
  • This just hurts in a not fun way.
• Excercise
  • The fact that I list this as a dislike is just evidence that I should do more of it.
• Line Writing
  • Either real lines, or writeforme tasks. This is just boring. Also a great way to be unfair to me by looking for mistakes in my work.
• Pics
  • This very much depends on context for me, and in some cases I enjoy it. My biggest objection is just the effort involved in getting a good picture, then sharing it. I'm almost never going to share pictures here. But if I do something that looks like it would come out well in a photo, I might end up taking one and sharing it on discord.
• Post orgasm torture
  • Not only is this no fun, it hurts. If you insist on doing this, I have a toy that can take me past an orgasm so fast I don't even get to enjoy it before the torture begins.
• Masculanization
  • I have a penis; and in most of my life present male. Comments that are just based in the reality of me having guy parts are fine. But things like "be a man", or taking photos that emphasise masculine features can quickly make me disphoric. This includes things like calling me feminine as an insult, or talking about me "crossdressing", as those are things you would only say to a guy.

Limits:

• Anal (fucking)
  • If I go through the trouble of putting something in my ass, it is staying there long enough to be worth it.
• Blood
  • Sometimes blood happens and that is ok. But it should never be the goal, and I will stop if any significant amount occurs
• Illegal
  • Should go without saying
• Jaw stress
  • Doctors orders. Mostly this limits me in what I can do with gags and oral. I do have some gags that will typically work for at least a short amount of time
• Needles
  • I went through 3 phsycologists and enough drugs to put me in a wheelchair to get a flu shot. If I am in the same room as someone doing needleplay, I may safeword.
• Blackmail
• Breathplay
• Pee drinking
• Family
• Public
• Permanant
• Showing face
• Sounding