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Kinky Debate: Do brats have more fun, or do they just cause more paperwork?

Maybe depends on the Brat but overall I think more fun!
I like to brat in a way that makes everyone giggle - me for whatever silly thing I’ve done/ said and out of nervousness for the consequences- then for being entertained by the creativity and the fun of getting to consider and torment as a consequence!
I like to keep bratting as something very playful, creative and a bit silly.
 
Oeehhhh I feel the need to be a bit of a brat here and slip through the loop hole that it was not stated I could not create another side to sit in.... :P But there is good reason for that, I am taking a neutral stance.

Brats can have more fun, but so can obedient subs, it is more to do with the entire dynamics involved. I would say more paperwork when with a dom that doesn't enjoy it or doesn't know how to handle it. But on the other side with a dom who douse, it can be endless fun for both. But the same is true for an obedient sub just in a different way. But for me, I could not imagine it being fun without the brat element, as a d/ it gives a good giggle and a bit of pride at the cleverness of my s/, on my own s/ side I cant not find loop holes or other ways to get in trouble and once I see them I have to use them.
 
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