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Anonymous (3e50)
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Is it normal to feel emotionally clingy after submission? Like… intense post-scene ‘I want to curl up in your lap forever’ energy?
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Anonymous (3826)
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Yes. This is why so many people have "curl up in the tops lap" as part of aftercare.
Haha! I have never seen that in somebody's aftercare list, but I might need to add it now.
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Anonymous (3826)
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I mean, if you ask them what they do, they typically say "cuddle"
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Anonymous (4774)
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IIRC people call that sub drop?
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Anonymous (ae5b)
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Perfectly normal.
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Anonymous (3e50)
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Im not sure if this is the same thing at all.
Sub drop is more of an emotional state after, this is just kind of a want for cuddles and like an intense bonding feeling
Totally normal! If I were small enough I'd totally curl up on a dom/domme's lap, but this'd be like one of those pupper vs adult great dane before after photo situations, partners i've had have typically been smaller, which is a funny dynamic when they're doming you looking up. 
Submission requires a load of trust and commitment, you have to be close to have it work really well, it's only natural to want to be close and relax after.
Submission requires a load of trust and commitment, you have to be close to have it work really well, it's only natural to want to be close and relax after.