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I was banned on GD for this...

So wow...After I don't know how many years, at least 15 and probably a bit longer than that...

Today I logged into GD and BAM!! You are banned...

Have to say I'm shocked...surprised and naturally a bit pissed off!

The reason they gave...SPAM, no warning after the amount I have contributed over the years, no quiet word...but straight to ban, and what was my spam you may wonder? I was sending a few select people on my friends list invites to come over to this site.

I don't know the full story of what happened between the founders here and the staff at GD, but I'm guessing it got very bitter and they feel threatened by this new site...which they should be in fairness as this site is much better and will only continue to get better.

So I won't be able to help anymore with recruitment I guess, though of course I can focus on content when I have some time.

This site in my view faces two challenges:

1. In Depth Content to keep people active, to draw on the search engines of Google and the like
2. Numbers, so namely active members here that will make this a community

Both of these are temporary problems and will improve with time and now I guess I will have more time to focus here not being distracted by GD anymore :D

Anyway, small rant over, be warned by my experience!
 
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Wow... I can imagine how that must have felt after all those years. I know how much GD meant to a lot of us, for a long time. It had been such a big part of my life, as well.

As for me, I asked to be banned. I chose to leave when I realized the site just wasn't the place it used to be for me. When Buttetfly was removed as an admin without warning, I knew it was time to go. No looking back.

It is never easy to see something that once meant so much take a turn like that, but I found a new home... and it's here. This is my family now.

Here's to new beginnings.
 
I had no idea admins could read private messages 😲 If someone was being a stickler for the rules - this site has nudity and posting links on GD to sites containing nudity would be considered breaking the rules. When I looked through the ban list, I saw that another member received probation for posting nude photos, so ... :cautious:

Personally, I felt more comfortable sharing this site with friends through Snapchat instead of risking any potential backlash. It just seemed like a safer choice, you know?"
 
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I can understand having a way to look at PM's for monitoring harassment and such... but an invite to a different website is really petty and seems like a waste of time....
 
I am so sorry that happened to you @Bloxo and anybody else who got caught in the crosshairs.

That was the same feeling I had when I signed in and was no longer a mod. I put 10 years into getdare and 8 of those as mod/admin and I was heartbroken to leave.

I don't want to spread negativity. I don't want to be petty and put down getDare, I won't. I am going to move on, take the higher road and I am going to put my love, passion and time into this site.

This is my new home. My new community and I have felt so much love from those who have joined us thus far.

It does make me sad that people who are trying to support me are being hurt in the process and I am so sorry for that.

I hope you too, can find a home here. I want this place to be a fun and safe space for all who choose to be here.
 
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