So I've been on holiday and life is crazy busy right now...but I thought I better respond to my Person Above Post challenge 
Kink tends to originate from youth, and for me my first known kink was WAM (Wet and Messy), Back when I was young Kids TV (and some adults TV) was full of slime/gunge...mainly Girls competing against Boys in shows such as Fun House, Run the Risk, Noel's House Party...etc...
I always felt funny when I saw girls getting messy, especially when they lost to a guy and I had a bad feeling when the guy would lose...however I never really knew it was a Kink/Fetish until I was 13...we got Cable TV and the Adult Channel had a 10 minute trailer before it went members only, I would see trailers for a program called Splosh and noticed I was getting turned on seeing this...
The internet allowed me to explore further...
When I was a bit older I would discover sites, one early one was called WSP - Web Strip Poker, somewhere free to use where you could upload a set of pictures and play against others on this program, this sparked some of my first kinky online interaction, though somewhat tame
Though I think it was GD that I really started to see other ideas and explore peoples interests, seeing the kinds of Dares people wanted to do, experimenting a little myself, but mainly just chatting with cool girls.
I was a bit of late bloomer confidence wise, so I'll just say in my 20's I discovered FetLife and met a girl on their (Cody/Laura) who I became a play partner with for some time, we would explore each others kinks, I would buy more toys (she actually worked in a sex shop), at one point we even went to a Rope tying class together held in the basement of some pub
Through Fetlife I joined a D&D group, where the one girl played Topless...that was another random experience
With other relationships in future I would do some kinky play...though sadly had a string of toxic relationships and some of my interests would be used against me to shame me after the fact (Even though they were pretty vanilla)
So most truly kinky consensual and like minded play for me has been online through GD and in real life I have become a bit less kinky, though I think I just need to be brave again and open up
Kink tends to originate from youth, and for me my first known kink was WAM (Wet and Messy), Back when I was young Kids TV (and some adults TV) was full of slime/gunge...mainly Girls competing against Boys in shows such as Fun House, Run the Risk, Noel's House Party...etc...
I always felt funny when I saw girls getting messy, especially when they lost to a guy and I had a bad feeling when the guy would lose...however I never really knew it was a Kink/Fetish until I was 13...we got Cable TV and the Adult Channel had a 10 minute trailer before it went members only, I would see trailers for a program called Splosh and noticed I was getting turned on seeing this...
The internet allowed me to explore further...
When I was a bit older I would discover sites, one early one was called WSP - Web Strip Poker, somewhere free to use where you could upload a set of pictures and play against others on this program, this sparked some of my first kinky online interaction, though somewhat tame
Though I think it was GD that I really started to see other ideas and explore peoples interests, seeing the kinds of Dares people wanted to do, experimenting a little myself, but mainly just chatting with cool girls.
I was a bit of late bloomer confidence wise, so I'll just say in my 20's I discovered FetLife and met a girl on their (Cody/Laura) who I became a play partner with for some time, we would explore each others kinks, I would buy more toys (she actually worked in a sex shop), at one point we even went to a Rope tying class together held in the basement of some pub
Through Fetlife I joined a D&D group, where the one girl played Topless...that was another random experience
With other relationships in future I would do some kinky play...though sadly had a string of toxic relationships and some of my interests would be used against me to shame me after the fact (Even though they were pretty vanilla)
So most truly kinky consensual and like minded play for me has been online through GD and in real life I have become a bit less kinky, though I think I just need to be brave again and open up