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How do I bring this up to my partner ...

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How do you bring up a fantasy that feels a little ‘out there,’ even by your usual kinky standards? I trust my partner, but I’m nervous they’ll find it too strange or not take it seriously. Any advice on how to open that conversation without feeling embarrassed or shutting down?
 
My favorite way I use to do it was "hey look at this video of people doing crazy shit" and judge there reaction not always the best way but it worked especially if you mix it into other things you send/show
 
It can depend on how open your partner is about similar things (test those out first). It also matters who would be in which role. My wife is hesitant to do any anal, to put it mildly, but when I asked her about getting me a Lovense edge to try, she was very supportive (this is out there for me).
 
It should be a already a habit in the dynamic to talk about all sorts of personal things and thoughts so that would be just one of many.
 
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