Today marks our 9th year anniversary together! 9 years ago we met on getDare – neither looking for anything very serious – and look where we are now!
- 9 years of kink play and torture
- 9 years of friendship
- 9 years of sharing the good and the bad together
- 9 years of gift giving
- 9 years of growth
- 9 years of fun!
- 3 in-person visits!
We may be long distance – although my last trip showed that that too is very relative – but we know each other so well by now. I always feel your presence, even if you are virtually just living in my phone most of the time.
Our last visit was just last month and it was pretty fantastic. I will blog about it more soon, but the highlight in kink was definitely you fisting my asshole for real this time. I also loved the games of Damn-It we played together, how excited you got at Build-a-Bear and.... you playing with my penis through my pants while we were driving!
I can’t believe how loyal and trustworthy and committed you are. I think online long-distance relationships that last this long are rare. Communication, especially just through text, can be hard. I certainly had to learn the hard way, but I feel like we are in a really good place right now.
Even if we aren't so active at this moment, we have done so much. And I have learned so much from you. I have grown to be more confident, more trusting, more communicative, more daring... all thanks to you!
I can’t wait to see what the future will bring for us. I’m sure we will meet each other again... and again... and again...
Maybe I even want to come for Christmas one day. Despite the cold, it would be great to see how you celebrate that.
But for now, lets celebrate our 9 years together! Big hugs and kisses for you Miss Butterfly. You are such an amazing friend!

