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First "toys" and experiences

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I was reminiscing about the first time I had an orgasm and the "toys" that I would use when I first started experimenting and either couldn't afford toys or were too embarrassed or young to go and buy them.

I thought it would be an interesting thing to discuss.

For example: When I first started masturbating, I used a makeup brush inside me and a back massager on my clit.

So tell us your stories!
 
From what I can remember the first thing I used was a toothbrush handle and that quickly went to wooden spoon handles, than I remember using knife handles the shape of our steak knife handles were perfect. When I was around 14 or so is when I got to use real toys finding my mom's and using hers and putting them back
 
Sir's toy still never had a first real sex toy. Let's say what you said about being too young and embarrassed also applies to her as despite getting older she continues to look and be mistaken for a teen, on top of that where she lives kink is quite taboo rendering the situation more tricky.

Sir's toy used a back massager as her first vibrator for her clit, and vitamine bottles as first dildoes.
 
Sir's toy still never had a first real sex toy. Let's say what you said about being too young and embarrassed also applies to her as despite getting older she continues to look and be mistaken for a teen, on top of that where she lives kink is quite taboo rendering the situation more tricky.

Sir's toy used a back massager as her first vibrator for her clit, and vitamine bottles as first dildoes.
If you ever decide to buy something online, I have some great recommendations for $10-15.
 
The very first "toy" that I ever used was a butt plug that I carved myself out of wood. I really really wanted to put something in my butt but I was too scared to buy anything.

I did make sure to make it super smooth and I used baby oil to get it in. It wasn't much bigger than my finger but I still struggled. I found it rather underwhelming when it was inside of me.

When much later I bought my first real butt plug it was so much more amazing.
 
When I first started exploring myself it was all about my hands, took me a while to get curious about toys, for anal use to be precise.
So there were lots of improvised toys, cannot remember which came first - some wooden dowels, pens - that sort of thing. I had been really curious about how they feel in my butt. First "real" toy was a soft vibrating plug. I remember it very clearly because the first time I tried it coincidentally was the time I learned just how far away people can hear the vibrations. Used it perhaps two or three times, then got a bigger one.
 
My first anal toy was a plug that I went to a sex store to buy. I was so blushy and intimidated that I just grabbed the first thing I saw. It was SO big and very uncomfortable haha. Definitely not a beginner plug and I had no real lube at the time either.
 
I had one of those glitter wands when I was young, and when I started experimenting (after trying a finger first) I used it a lot. I remember being a little sore the first few times I tried, but it felt pretty good, so I kept doing it. I didn't realise it at the time, but it made me squirt neerly every time, I was just too clumsy and inexperienced for it to feel anything like how people described orgasms. It took years to figure out vaginal orgasms aren't very strong for me until I've had a few, so back then I was probably accidentally ruining the weak orgasms I would have had if I knew what I was doing.

Then one day my parents got a new shower head and I spent the next 2 years taking 60+ minute showers because I discovered clitoral orgasms.

The first real sex toy I got came in a set. I bought them when I was 16 and they were all hard plastic toys, including a vibrator, bullet vibrator, and egg vibrator. The bullet wasn't strong enough and it took a long time with the regular vibrator, but it was nice to have options beside the shower because using my hands wasn't working.

The first anal toy I got was a set of butt plugs, but I didn't use them very often. It took several years before I really got into anal and by that time I had learned about safe and unsafe materials, so I had to replace them with new ones.
 
I grinded on some of my plushies. One had a well placed hole, so I used it as a... Kinda flashlight a few times.
I also discovered anal play in the bath with my sister's Barby dolls (the legs work quite well, so might be too pointy to be truly safe, but I was lucky, I never hurt myself).
And I tried freezing a water filled condom.... Well.... You know how wet skin sticks to ice? Yeah, didn't slide very far in....
 
The puppy's first masturbation experiments funnily enough were with a smarties tube. Rubbing the tip of its cock as it protruded from there. Fanning its fingers over it. Eventually some day going over the edge and chasing that first conscious literally toe curling orgasm ever since then. Putting its cock into closed containers, small bottlles it could push just enough air into with a straw, or the handle of a spoon to let air past the skin and glass. Many dangerous experiments in hindsight.
The puppy can literally still point out, and show where the neck of the bottle used to constrict its erection way more than it probably should have!

If growth and width wasn't such an issue the puppy would be in chastity way more often than it actually is. But remembering these first experiments now, it might look into a fleshlight to try out maybe.
The puppy doesn't have sex with its owner. And when out with others to pleasure them, it is always in some kind of chastity. So, yeah - gonna talk with Mistress about a toy in that vein maybe. :)

For anal, it was fingers first, then those same small bottles the puppy trapped its dick inside of. Eventually it had a bank account and found a shop that was selling printer equipment as one business, and sex toys as another. Could get "printer equipment" delivered while still living with its parents back then XD Never used that inflatable butt plug and vibrator with any printer though.
 
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