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First times

MessyAshy

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Joined
Apr 11, 2025
Location
Belgium
Gender
Male
Pride
Bisexual Bisexual
Tell us about your first time domming or subbing! What was it like? What did you do? Was it fun or awkward?
 
Wow, I tried to remember the very first time but cannot really say when it was. I have many memories of my early and very chaotic exploration but cannot say what the actual first time was, at this point I am not even sure which memories were made in the same session :/

I do remember lots of highlights though, and one which might just be the first time in submission is this: It started out as a game - it may have been truth or dare, spin the bottle, or something else with a similar dynamic. What I remember is that it gives someone the say over another and it was me who had to kiss another player's foot, or shoe, sock.. I only remember that they were all giggling at me having to do that. I thought what the hell, in for a penny - in for a pound! I got on my knees and gave her shoe the royal worshiping - licking, kissing, admiring! Cannot quite remember how our friends reacted, a mix of laughter, shock, and admiration. Not sure how long we kept playing for after that but eventually we got the gist that I enjoy those tasks way more than I should and they started just dishing them out. It wasn't really anything sexual, more like serving them stuff, being bossed around. I remember giving foot massages, too. There may have been some cuckolding too but I really cannot tell if it was the same evening. What really stuck with me is how I got on my knees and felt utterly affirmed in that position - my friends around me amused and me submitting to another one. With what I know now I say that was a form of sub space.

My first time domming is even harder to remember. One that stuck with me oddly started out with the same person involved. It was three of us and this one was more sex-oriented - I did not participate in the intercourse itself but I was in control of the actual partners. It probably stuck with me because of the bondage involved. Do not want to think about how poorly it was executed but it was great fun, combined with teasing and humiliation play. Made them say how much they loved it and what they liked us to do to them, so adorable! I also remember they freed themselves afterwards, yeah I definitely was a novice back then!

I do not want to give too many details for I absolutely do not want any of them to be recognized!
 
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