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Curious and exploring

Marc, 45. Introduced to this website by someone who’s quietly growing into a great friend and connection.

I wanted to post something, to take part, to be present, but after reading through some of the posts so far, I feel a little out of my depth. Compared to the confidence and clarity I see here, I almost feel foolish trying to write anything at all.

My experience? Probably what you'd call vanilla.
I'd say… curious vanilla. If that’s even a thing.

I'll admit it: reading your stories, your thoughts, your kinks... it turns me on.

I don’t know where this path will lead. Maybe nowhere... Maybe to something amazing.

Please bear with me. I might say awkward things.
But I’m curious and willing. And I’m here to explore.
 
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Hi @MarX4U Firstly welcome! I think we were all there at one point. We didn't really know what kinky stuff was. We were mostly vanilla and then we saw or read or heard of some stuff and it gave us the good tingles. Some of us it took years to discover what we loved. I know I did. Lots of trial and error but it's a journey! So welcome stay a while and discovered those things that give you the good good tingles. Happy to see new people!

Don't feel bad asking questions and keeping an open mind and certainty don't feel foolish. We all started somewhere and I know I'm always happy to see people getting their freak on and figuring out what they like. So a warm heartfelt welcome!
 
Hi @MarX4U Firstly welcome! I think we were all there at one point. We didn't really know what kinky stuff was. We were mostly vanilla and then we saw or read or heard of some stuff and it gave us the good tingles. Some of us it took years to discover what we loved. I know I did. Lots of trial and error but it's a journey! So welcome stay a while and discovered those things that give you the good good tingles. Happy to see new people!

Don't feel bad asking questions and keeping an open mind and certainty don't feel foolish. We all started somewhere and I know I'm always happy to see people getting their freak on and figuring out what they like. So a warm heartfelt welcome!
Thank you so much for your kind words ObsidanDusk. They make me feel welcome for real. Will definitely try to discover the good tingles 😉. Thanx.
 
Of course :) happy to have you. Also if you ever have questions and don't want to make a full post feel free to join us over in chat. People always love to talk about their kinks!
 
Welcome to this wonderful corner of the web we call home! Dont worry, we are all always learning. Glad that you have joined us and look forward to getting to know you even better. 😊
 
So happy you're here! And never feel like you don't know enough to be part of the conversation, we are all still learning.
 
So happy you're here! And never feel like you don't know enough to be part of the conversation, we are all still learning.
Thanks for the warm welcome! 😘 I’m still pretty green, but reading some of the awesome posts on this website feels like a crash course already.
 
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