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chastity questions

darkness991

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 24, 2026
Location
holland
Gender
sissy
didnt see this on here yet so here we go first part is for subs second for dominants

are you locked up right now?

how often are you locked in chastity?

do you have a key holder? real life or online?

if not why do you put on your chastity cage?

whats the longest you have been locked up?

why did you start chastity?

what do you like most about being locked up?

what do you like to do while you are locked up?

how was your first time being locked up?

what is the best thing you have done while you were locked up?

for doms

do you have someone locked up right now?

if yes one or more?

if more why?

how often do you lock someone in chastity?

do you have a submissive that you lock up? real life or online?

if not are you looking for someone?

whats the longest youve had someone locked up?

why did you start?

what do you like about having someone locked up for you?

what do you like to do while you have someone locked up?

how was your first time having someone locked up for you?

whats the best thing you have done with someone you had locked up?
 
are you locked up right now?
Yes.. I caged and locked myself this morning out of the shower.

how often are you locked in chastity?
Usually 1 day a week.. sometimes more

do you have a key holder? real life or online?
Sometimes have a KH, but mostly self-locked

if not why do you put on your chastity cage?
Love the feeling of the cage as a constant reminder I cannot doing anything about it.

whats the longest you have been locked up?
48 hours so far.

why did you start chastity?
Like the submissive feeling

what do you like most about being locked up?
The feel and weight of the cage on me as well as the ring around my balls.

what do you like to do while you are locked up?
Love chatting online while caged and locked... usually super horny.

how was your first time being locked up?
Was a fun experience, but took some getting used too.

what is the best thing you have done while you were locked up?
Doing some self bondage and dildo play
 
are you locked up right now?
No, I'm unlocked at the moment

how often are you locked in chastity?
It's usually for very extended periods (weeks to months at a time), but I probably spend more time locked than unlocked

do you have a key holder? real life or online?
IRL yes

if not why do you put on your chastity cage?
I started without one, and I did it to try and bring about a really horny headspace where I would do humiliating things

whats the longest you have been locked up?
I've spent about a year in a cage where the longest I was out was a couple of days max and I was locked for 90% of the time.
The longest continuous locked period was 3 months with no orgasms, was pretty intense


why did you start chastity?
As above, trying to get into a horny submissive headspace where I will do humiliating things. Also, wanted to use chastity to help achieve orgasm without touching my dick

what do you like most about being locked up?
The pressure in my prostate slowly building, and the feeling of full balls, eventually leading to a leaky cock whenever you're excited. Feeling helpless and dripping from your cage is a lot of fun

what do you like to do while you are locked up?
CBT, nipple play, anal training, anything to amplify the horniness.

how was your first time being locked up?
Honestly, not great. Wasn't the right cage, was very pinchy, wasn't comfortable, but visually very appealing and exciting.

what is the best thing you have done while you were locked up?
Learned how to orgasm in different ways, and how to control my orgasms. I can now orgasm from CBT, nipple play, anal play when I couldn't before, and I've also learned the ability to even deny myself wet dreams. They don't happen often, but I can choose to cum or not even in my sleep now
 
didnt see this on here yet so here we go first part is for subs second for dominants

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are you locked up right now?​

Yes I am.

how often are you locked in chastity?​

I tend to put it on when I know I'll be getting off later, or the whole time I am solo focusing my partner.

do you have a key holder? real life or online?​

No. Even my partner hasn't really grabbed the reins on it.

if not why do you put on your chastity cage?​

It somehow builds my horniness to a crazy level, and it can make for an aggravating game.

whats the longest you have been locked up?​

9 hours

why did you start chastity?​

Got into finding and trying a lot of kinks I had never even thought of. Trying to learn and keep things interesting.

what do you like most about being locked up?​

There's this entirely encapsulating feeling that I can't explain, and the challenge of moving my focus away...

what do you like to do while you are locked up?​

Usually watching some weird hypno stuff to toy with my mind; toy with my ass sometimes. I like to participate in games/dares, otherwise share my caged status with some like-minded.
Occasionally, I actually try and get some work done...

how was your first time being locked up?​

I don't recall it being so arousing at first. I just remember thinking, heh that's what it's like huh. But my uptight nuts pulled through the silicone set. Now I don't really use the silicone...

what is the best thing you have done while you were locked up?​

Gooned half a day, toying my ass. Cumming from a big glass dildo...
 
are you locked up right now?
No, it's unfortunately my time of the month 😞
how often are you locked in chastity?
My husband has set me a "soft" target of 40 hours a week, with spankings for every hour short
do you have a key holder? real life or online?
Usually my husband, otherwise my Mistress. Occasionally Emily and once or twice my neighbor Mr R
whats the longest you have been locked up?
12 hours. Double plugged. It was really starting to hurt 😖
why did you start chastity?
It was a gift for our 10th wedding anniversary from our circle, sort of tongue in cheek since my husband is a truck driver and spends several nights away from home
what do you like most about being locked up?
The frustration and humiliation
what do you like to do while you are locked up?
Try to hide the fact that I'm locked up...
how was your first time being locked up?
Humiliating! We were with Thomas and Emily and they took me out with it under a short skirt and a jacket with the thigh cuffs, double plugged, and made me walk... 😰😖👀😳
what is the best thing you have done while you were locked up?
Lots of housework for my neighbor wearing nothing else
 
didnt see this on here yet so here we go first part is for subs second for dominants

are you locked up right now? No but I will be locked back up in the next few minutes (hygiene unlock)

how often are you locked in chastity? The goal is the majority of the

do you have a key holder? real life or online? Yes I do in real life

if not why do you put on your chastity cage?

whats the longest you have been locked up? 27 days

why did you start chastity? It fascinates me to give over control

what do you like most about being locked up? Being someone that is working towards transitioning it feels right now having access, using a vibrator, and having to set to pee

what do you like to do while you are locked up? It puts me in a sub space and I love to serve.

how was your first time being locked up? Hard because I was to turned on

what is the best thing you have done while you were locked up? I was tied up by my mistress and fucked till I came. She make me clean up all of after.
 
are you locked up right now?
No I'm not. I don't wear it while I'm at work. I work a pretty physically demanding job and just don't want to have to deal with it.
how often are you locked in chastity?
I try to do two or three evenings a week and maybe most of Saturday if I can.
do you have a key holder? real life or online?
I don't. I'm self locked.
if not why do you put on your chastity cage?
I started out thinking that it wasn't for me. I couldn't understand why a guy would sign up for that. I got more and more exposed to the idea on here and discord. I then became curious. That curiosity lead to buying my first cage.
I like the feeling of it around me and the knowing that I have a secret going on.
whats the longest you have been locked up?
13-14 hours.
why did you start chastity?
SAA
what do you like most about being locked up?
I like the mental aspect of it. Sure I'm self locked but knowing that you can't touch yourself directly is pretty fun. It also adds to the horniness.
what do you like to do while you are locked up?
Mostly just go about daily life. But I do like posting in the Chasity Check thread and showing off my cage.
how was your first time being locked up?
It was surprisingly better than I thought it would be. I think I had it on for a couple of hours.
what is the best thing you have done while you were locked up?
I posted on the edge on demand thread and had to use a vibrator on the outside of the cage to edge. It was amazing. I look forward to having some privacy to do that again.
 
are you locked up right now?
Yep! o_O I keep a mention in my signature when locked

how often are you locked in chastity?
Occasionally, usually not much more than a week at most.

do you have a key holder? real life or online?
IRL has been by far most fun, but Online has its own charm, being teased by someone you cannot touch. Currently self locked.
if not why do you put on your chastity cage?
Sometimes as punishment/motivation, other times for play. Using it in combination with attempting to seek out a prostate orgasm through enforced denial.

what's the longest you have been locked up?
21 days That... was mind bending by the end.

why did you start chastity?
It's an extension of denial play / submission

what do you like most about being locked up?
Giving up control and the constant feeling surrounding you, like being groped. Makes you needy as denial sets in.

what do you like to do while you are locked up?
Explore attempts of alternative stimulation, being teased, risking time/rewards/punishments. Serve others, focus on their pleasure.

how was your first time being locked up?
Difficult, experimental, and poorly fitting! Felt great to strain against it. But totally impractical until I explored other fitting cages, to this day a good cage for longer wear is a tricky one.

what is the best thing you have done while you were locked up?
Probably the general feeling of being "owned" and the safety that gave with a previous IRL partner. It's sometimes the quiet moments that are so impactful. Laying in bed, held, weak and exposed to them and being able to feel comfort from that bonded trust you've offered to them.
 
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