Being blocked....

[Anonymous (87fa)]

So, I played with someone new (not here, on another site) and it was all going well. I did everything I could to make them comfortable. Even asking if there was anything I can do to make them more comfortable etc. They then set rules and we set safe words. We played last night over VC and all was going well. They told me it was some of the most fun they've had etc. We played again this morning and again they gave no indication that anything was wrong and they really enjoyed etc. Then they randomly just blocked me after that.

It really hurts. I struggle with self worth as it is and now I will forever wonder if I was an asshole and didn't realise it or if they just decided they didn't want to play anymore. If they didn't want to play anymore, what stopped them from telling me that before blocking me?

I just want to cry tbh

 

[Anonymous (0cfe)]

I am so sorry this happened to you. I have been in very similar situations and it hurts so much. I hate not knowing what happened.

The worst part is that it is usually somebody who has said they would never ghost or that they would tell me if there was something wrong and then BAM it happens anyways.

It hurts even more after you have played. I always end up feeling used.

Please know this isn't because of you. This is on them. Whether you did something that they didn't like or not, they ghosted you and that was an asshole and cowardly move.

 

[Anonymous (87fa)]

Thank you <3

I can't help but feel like it's because of me but your comments helped. Thanks stranger