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AITA for being turned off when my partner tried dirty talk but it came out super awkward?

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Just as the title states.

I wanted to try dirty talk. She tried and it was super aqkward and just killed the mood.
 
I don’t think there’s enough information for me to answer. It would depend on what both of you said and tone. Though not enjoying something on its own is no fault of your own.
 
I am also extremely turned off by dirty talk it kills the mood and pulls me from sub space so quickly
 
Anonymous (730f) said:
I am also extremely turned off by dirty talk it kills the mood and pulls me from sub space so quickly
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I wouldn't say you are the asshole for being turned of by this. If you had a good chat after this where you could talk about it I would say it is only a positive. You discovered something you didn't like, and turned you off. In the future you can make sure this doesn't happen again, talk about what you didn't like ect, and keep discovering other things you might like more!
 
There are so many different types of dirty talk, ways to do it. Also languages do do it in. As with many forms of communication, presentation is key. Don't be disheartened by troublesome beginnings, if your partner is up for it, try to mix it up and ask them what they like to hear.
Try to be open minded about this, and experiment with different ways to do it - good luck!
 
It depends did you give her some constructive criticism like no this doesn't work for me and here is why? If you weren't open and communicating then it could be a problem.
 
Anonymous (a789) said:
It depends did you give her some constructive criticism like no this doesn't work for me and here is why? If you weren't open and communicating then it could be a problem.
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No, I didnt want her to be self conciousa nd upset because she tried
 
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