EchoesDistorted
Member
- What is your age?
- 34
- What best descbibes you?
- Dom
- What gender are you?
- Male
- What age range are you looking for?
- 20+
- What should the other person's gender be?
- Female - Trans (either way) - Sissy
- What are you looking for?
- Sub
- Where should this person be?
- Anywhere, though a similar timezone would be best (or similar available hours)
- What little extra would you like people to know at a glance?
- I treasure dependability and honesty as traits in those I take on more then anything else.
Hello and welcome to my latest add (well, first on here)! This add is open to any female or trans subs/slaves ect. I accept both MTF and FTM subs potentially, what I'm more interested in is the individual, I may even accept sissy applicants, though any sissy who applies has to be very dedicated to that aspect, I'm not really accepting generic male subs.
Age wise I'm accepting people who're 20+, do not be discouraged if you are older from applying, I have taken on multiple people 20ish years older then myself and they have lead to some very good and long lasting dynamics, so don't let something like that age gap discourage you. I may consider someone 19 or 18 though it's somewhat less likely I would take you on.
Your level of experience doesn't matter at all, you could of been active for 30 years or you could be brand new, dipping your toes into exploring yourself, both have good aspects we can work with, hell, if someone has no experience it just means we get to explore and discover your interests together!
Me, Myself And I
Now, onto me! I have been active as a dom most of my adult life (literally dipping my toes in when I was 18), starting out online and branching into in person where I can, I've dipped my toes into all forms of dynamics over the years and can adapt quite easily to provide the dynamic the applicant is interested in. My longest dynamics have gone on for around 3 years (of which there's been several) though I am of course always hoping to smash that mark.
I'm a big geek/nerd, if you want to get to know me outside of the dynamic I'm happy to get to know you as well, though if you don't want that to be part of the dynamic then that is fine as well. My hobbies include gaming, D&D, writing, drawing, watching things, reading and other geeky activities!
What Sort Of Dom/Master/Owner Am I?
I can be quite the strict 'task master', what I mean by this, be it through set tasks, sessions or through set rules, I do expect what has been agreed to, to be stuck to. Failure to do so does result in punishment and no, I do not mean funishments, I mean actual punishments that aren't 'fun'. This means when agreeing to a task, action in session or to rules, you have to make sure that you are capable of adhering to them. I don't have issue with talking about potential issues, discussing work arounds ect. though once you agree to something, I expect it done. If it turns out undoable for a reason you didn't foresee, be clear and honest and we can work around or discard said task if appropriate.
I do not like to hand out punishments, the reasoning should be obvious. If you enjoy things that are normally seen as punishments, then say so, it means I can work those things into the dynamic.
With working full time, there is only so much time I can give to a dynamic, though I'll message daily there is a good chance that I will set tasks to be completed, setup living rules to keep the potential applicant active. If you are only interested in having live sessions, say so, to avoid unnecessary effort and frustration and we will focus on working around that element.
I enjoy creating complex tasks/sessions that can potentially take place over hours or even days when the opportunity presents itself.
What I Expect From You
To put it simply, I expect honesty and dependability. I am fully aware that life happens, plans change, unexpected things happen though given how easy it is now to tap a few keys on your phone to send a message there is no excuse to be left waiting. Unless your phone died/smashed to pieces, that's quite a legitimate reasoning. If we set up a time for a session and something happens, just send a few taps my way to let me know something is up when you can and though I will ask about it, I wont expect a response until things clear up on your end. It just means I won't be left waiting for nothing for an hour. I've had many people do this over the years for small changes that interrupt what they had planned, it's never nice to be left hanging because you went to eat and didn't feel it worth informing me.
Please be sure to mention cookies in your response somewhere so I know how much attention you paid to this.
In terms of honesty, for anyone that serves me, it's a trait I always seek. If your don't complete a task, break a rule, facing any consequences of that is a great way to earn my trust and show you're sincere in your role. Punishments may not be fun for either party, though they are part of the dynamic ultimately.
I expect you to be upfront about what you want. Do not go on to say how you want rules, tasks ect. when in reality all you want is occasional sessions, holding back the truth here only damages a potential dynamic and potentially wastes both peoples time, given I would approach someone only wanting that completely different to someone wanting to give up control of their day to day.
I do screen those who I take on to make sure you are who you claim to be, there are many ways to do this safely though it tends to need a few more steps these days due to people trying to play pretend with AI.
Loves, Likes, Dislikes, Limits, Curiosities
The simple truth is that I like all aspects of the lifestyle practically, what I list below are just the highlights, I do not expect anyone applying to be interested in everything listed, in which case that thing would not be touched on for that person.
Loves
Humiliation - A common trait I get allot of enjoyment out and have found oh so many ways to explore and enjoy.
Bondage - A cornerstone of the lifestyle
Tease & Denial - Is there anything better then edging you sub, then as you pull away you lift their head so their eyes meet yours and the look of bliss and torment is mixed across their face as they beg you to continue between shaky breaths?
Semi Public - This has a very large area of potential fun provided it's explored safely. I've managed to draw out the exhibitionist in many a shy sub who hadn't ever considered it before...
Creative Tasks - Setting tasks with various phases and challenges with failure states can be very fun for both parties.
Likes
Just about all areas of the lifestyle.
Dislikes
Liars - This should be rather self explanatory
People who are not dependable - I do not like people promising me the moon and not even delivering a rock.
Limits
Illegal activities - I will not touch on anything illegal, if you intend to try and involve me in anything along these lines we will not work out and I will go on my way. There are a decent number of things that fall under this banner.
Bodily harm - I will not encourage any form of bodily harm, while I can be a sadist and happy to cause pain, I will never be involved with people hurting themselves in destructive ways.
Curiosities
Just about everything - Though I'm unlikely to do much with breathplay (because I can't be there to help if things go wrong), I am willing to try just about any area of the lifestyle, though for some of it I will research deeply before trying things to try and take the best care of my sub that I can.
Punishments I Have Given
These are just a few examples of simple punishments I've given, I do tend to get creative at times, some of these are simply things people enjoy (sod knows I've known many who LOVE being denied for long periods of time with frequent stimulation), though in those cases they obviously wouldn't be punished with that.
Banning orgasms for a set time (up to months)
Banning from sleeping in a bed
Banning pillows
Banning articles of clothing
Banning favourite food/drink
Corner time (including up to 6 hours, I kept them on camera in the corner of my screen whilst working on something, it was completed in full and any time they tried to move they found me forcing them back on task, naturally kept them naked to give me something nice to keep an eye on)
Line writing
Questions, Questions
A little something I would like to hear from anyone wanting to apply to this add. Feel free to direct message me the answers and any questions you have for me!
What is your name/nickname?
What is your age?
What is your sex?
What is your gender?
What are your loves, likes, dislikes, limits, curiosities?
What type of dynamic are you seeking? (master/slave, sub/dom, pet/owner ect.)
What experience do you have?
What is your best quality?
What is your worse quality?
What would you change about yourself if given the choice?
What are your hobbies?
What is your living situation?
What is your occupation?
What messengers do you use?
What time zone are you in?
What is a fantasy you would like to eventually see made reality?
Do you have any aspect of yourself you seek help with improving through this dynamic?
I hope you enjoyed reading through this ad if you made it this far! I look forward to hearing from any potential applicants in the near future. If you found this is not for you then thankyou for taking the time to read this ad regardless, best of luck in your search!
Age wise I'm accepting people who're 20+, do not be discouraged if you are older from applying, I have taken on multiple people 20ish years older then myself and they have lead to some very good and long lasting dynamics, so don't let something like that age gap discourage you. I may consider someone 19 or 18 though it's somewhat less likely I would take you on.
Your level of experience doesn't matter at all, you could of been active for 30 years or you could be brand new, dipping your toes into exploring yourself, both have good aspects we can work with, hell, if someone has no experience it just means we get to explore and discover your interests together!
Me, Myself And I
Now, onto me! I have been active as a dom most of my adult life (literally dipping my toes in when I was 18), starting out online and branching into in person where I can, I've dipped my toes into all forms of dynamics over the years and can adapt quite easily to provide the dynamic the applicant is interested in. My longest dynamics have gone on for around 3 years (of which there's been several) though I am of course always hoping to smash that mark.
I'm a big geek/nerd, if you want to get to know me outside of the dynamic I'm happy to get to know you as well, though if you don't want that to be part of the dynamic then that is fine as well. My hobbies include gaming, D&D, writing, drawing, watching things, reading and other geeky activities!
What Sort Of Dom/Master/Owner Am I?
I can be quite the strict 'task master', what I mean by this, be it through set tasks, sessions or through set rules, I do expect what has been agreed to, to be stuck to. Failure to do so does result in punishment and no, I do not mean funishments, I mean actual punishments that aren't 'fun'. This means when agreeing to a task, action in session or to rules, you have to make sure that you are capable of adhering to them. I don't have issue with talking about potential issues, discussing work arounds ect. though once you agree to something, I expect it done. If it turns out undoable for a reason you didn't foresee, be clear and honest and we can work around or discard said task if appropriate.
I do not like to hand out punishments, the reasoning should be obvious. If you enjoy things that are normally seen as punishments, then say so, it means I can work those things into the dynamic.
With working full time, there is only so much time I can give to a dynamic, though I'll message daily there is a good chance that I will set tasks to be completed, setup living rules to keep the potential applicant active. If you are only interested in having live sessions, say so, to avoid unnecessary effort and frustration and we will focus on working around that element.
I enjoy creating complex tasks/sessions that can potentially take place over hours or even days when the opportunity presents itself.
What I Expect From You
To put it simply, I expect honesty and dependability. I am fully aware that life happens, plans change, unexpected things happen though given how easy it is now to tap a few keys on your phone to send a message there is no excuse to be left waiting. Unless your phone died/smashed to pieces, that's quite a legitimate reasoning. If we set up a time for a session and something happens, just send a few taps my way to let me know something is up when you can and though I will ask about it, I wont expect a response until things clear up on your end. It just means I won't be left waiting for nothing for an hour. I've had many people do this over the years for small changes that interrupt what they had planned, it's never nice to be left hanging because you went to eat and didn't feel it worth informing me.
Please be sure to mention cookies in your response somewhere so I know how much attention you paid to this.
In terms of honesty, for anyone that serves me, it's a trait I always seek. If your don't complete a task, break a rule, facing any consequences of that is a great way to earn my trust and show you're sincere in your role. Punishments may not be fun for either party, though they are part of the dynamic ultimately.
I expect you to be upfront about what you want. Do not go on to say how you want rules, tasks ect. when in reality all you want is occasional sessions, holding back the truth here only damages a potential dynamic and potentially wastes both peoples time, given I would approach someone only wanting that completely different to someone wanting to give up control of their day to day.
I do screen those who I take on to make sure you are who you claim to be, there are many ways to do this safely though it tends to need a few more steps these days due to people trying to play pretend with AI.
Loves, Likes, Dislikes, Limits, Curiosities
The simple truth is that I like all aspects of the lifestyle practically, what I list below are just the highlights, I do not expect anyone applying to be interested in everything listed, in which case that thing would not be touched on for that person.
Loves
Humiliation - A common trait I get allot of enjoyment out and have found oh so many ways to explore and enjoy.
Bondage - A cornerstone of the lifestyle
Tease & Denial - Is there anything better then edging you sub, then as you pull away you lift their head so their eyes meet yours and the look of bliss and torment is mixed across their face as they beg you to continue between shaky breaths?
Semi Public - This has a very large area of potential fun provided it's explored safely. I've managed to draw out the exhibitionist in many a shy sub who hadn't ever considered it before...
Creative Tasks - Setting tasks with various phases and challenges with failure states can be very fun for both parties.
Likes
Just about all areas of the lifestyle.
Dislikes
Liars - This should be rather self explanatory
People who are not dependable - I do not like people promising me the moon and not even delivering a rock.
Limits
Illegal activities - I will not touch on anything illegal, if you intend to try and involve me in anything along these lines we will not work out and I will go on my way. There are a decent number of things that fall under this banner.
Bodily harm - I will not encourage any form of bodily harm, while I can be a sadist and happy to cause pain, I will never be involved with people hurting themselves in destructive ways.
Curiosities
Just about everything - Though I'm unlikely to do much with breathplay (because I can't be there to help if things go wrong), I am willing to try just about any area of the lifestyle, though for some of it I will research deeply before trying things to try and take the best care of my sub that I can.
Punishments I Have Given
These are just a few examples of simple punishments I've given, I do tend to get creative at times, some of these are simply things people enjoy (sod knows I've known many who LOVE being denied for long periods of time with frequent stimulation), though in those cases they obviously wouldn't be punished with that.
Banning orgasms for a set time (up to months)
Banning from sleeping in a bed
Banning pillows
Banning articles of clothing
Banning favourite food/drink
Corner time (including up to 6 hours, I kept them on camera in the corner of my screen whilst working on something, it was completed in full and any time they tried to move they found me forcing them back on task, naturally kept them naked to give me something nice to keep an eye on)
Line writing
Questions, Questions
A little something I would like to hear from anyone wanting to apply to this add. Feel free to direct message me the answers and any questions you have for me!
What is your name/nickname?
What is your age?
What is your sex?
What is your gender?
What are your loves, likes, dislikes, limits, curiosities?
What type of dynamic are you seeking? (master/slave, sub/dom, pet/owner ect.)
What experience do you have?
What is your best quality?
What is your worse quality?
What would you change about yourself if given the choice?
What are your hobbies?
What is your living situation?
What is your occupation?
What messengers do you use?
What time zone are you in?
What is a fantasy you would like to eventually see made reality?
Do you have any aspect of yourself you seek help with improving through this dynamic?
I hope you enjoyed reading through this ad if you made it this far! I look forward to hearing from any potential applicants in the near future. If you found this is not for you then thankyou for taking the time to read this ad regardless, best of luck in your search!
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