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To my future Dom ...

To my Future Dom,

We haven't met yet, but I know that I will feel lucky to know you.

You are kind, sweet and caring. You listen to me and ask questions about how my day went. You give me hugs and snuggles when I am feeling sad. You remind me to take care of myself and put myself first at times. When you compliment me, I don't feel that they are empty or buttering me up to get something from me. You genuinely believe nice things about me.

We have few rules, but the ones we do have are very important. You enforce them very strictly because they are for my own good. We have open communication, trust and honestly always.

You have a big heart. You believe I am a princess and should be treated as such. You do everything you can to make me smile, and I do the same for you. You like to read me bedtime stories and tuck me in to bed. You enjoy spending time with me in the KW chat room, and always comment on my blogs, stories and posts, even when I tease you about stalking me.

Your voice is smooth and warm, but can also be demanding and domly. I love to have casual conversations and play sessions with you over voice chat. The sound of your voice can feel like a warm hug, or it can make me tingle with anticipation and excitement.

You are creative and love to help me push my limits and/or try new things. I love that I never know what to expect, even though it also drives me CRAZY to not know the plan. You like to keep me on the edge of my seat and always anticipating what come next. You love to surprise me, even though I say I hate surprises.

I love to make you laugh. I love to have fun with you. You don't punish me for being bratty, instead you encourage my brattiness because it makes me happy. However, when it goes too far, just a firm warning is enough to remind me that you are in charge.

You understand that life comes first, and that there are days or weeks where I don't feel like playing or doing anything kinky. You are ok to just be with me, watch a movie, chat, play a game online. Yet, you have little (non-kinky) ways to remind me that I am yours.

Not only do you respect my relationship with my husband, but you embrace it. You strive to make our relationship stronger. You take the time to communicate with him, and include him in your plans at times. You are not intimidated or threatened by sharing me with him. And the same goes for my other relationships - long term or casual.

Although you love seeing pictures of me, you never pressure me to share. You know that I have some troubles with self esteem and that I need encouragement and reassurance.

You make me feel like I am worth it. You make me feel loved. You make me feel safe.

Because of this, I am devoted to you. I make you a priority in my life. I share my love, my joy, my pleasure, my trust ... with you. I submit to you willingly, knowing you will protect me fiercely.

You are one of my best friends and I can't wait to meet you.

Signed,
Butterfly
 
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