Today is a day to celebrate 9 years of being with a worm.
Holy, freaking Worm! I can't believe it has been 9 years already. I guess time really does fly when you are torturing a worm.
9 years ago I was sitting in the parking lot of a Canadian Tire. I didn't want to go inside because the store gives me anxiety
. So instead, I sat in the car while Mr. Devious went in. While I was waiting, I was browsing blogs, just checking things out. I came across a blog written by our worm (though, he didn't know he was a worm at the time!). He was writing about wanting to try and experience being submissive, but he didn't know where to start.
Now, being a female switch, I get a lot of attention from male subs. Most of the time, I just ignore them. I am very picky with who I will Domme, and I don't take on too many submissive play partners at a time because it can be draining. But something about his post just sparked my interest. I reached out to him and we began to talk. What started as something really casual, has turned into a magnificent friendship and kinky relationship.
We have learned so much together. We have both grown so much as people and as kinksters in our time together. We have supported each other through many different life events including: marriage, deaths, births, sickness, new jobs, new houses, a global pandemic and all of the things in between.
Our dynamic has evolved throughout our time together as well. We have gone from casual D/s to strict M/s type rules. We even had a stint of consensual blackmail, We have tried many different kinks - some we absolutely loved, and others we don't ever feel the need to try again.
Throughout all the changes, one thing has stayed the same: our friendship is so special.
I am so lucky to have a worm as my friend, my partner and the outlet for my sadistic kinky side.
Happy Anniversary Jaro! I love you <3
9 years and still counting!
Holy, freaking Worm! I can't believe it has been 9 years already. I guess time really does fly when you are torturing a worm.
9 years ago I was sitting in the parking lot of a Canadian Tire. I didn't want to go inside because the store gives me anxiety
. So instead, I sat in the car while Mr. Devious went in. While I was waiting, I was browsing blogs, just checking things out. I came across a blog written by our worm (though, he didn't know he was a worm at the time!). He was writing about wanting to try and experience being submissive, but he didn't know where to start.Now, being a female switch, I get a lot of attention from male subs. Most of the time, I just ignore them. I am very picky with who I will Domme, and I don't take on too many submissive play partners at a time because it can be draining. But something about his post just sparked my interest. I reached out to him and we began to talk. What started as something really casual, has turned into a magnificent friendship and kinky relationship.
We have learned so much together. We have both grown so much as people and as kinksters in our time together. We have supported each other through many different life events including: marriage, deaths, births, sickness, new jobs, new houses, a global pandemic and all of the things in between.
Our dynamic has evolved throughout our time together as well. We have gone from casual D/s to strict M/s type rules. We even had a stint of consensual blackmail, We have tried many different kinks - some we absolutely loved, and others we don't ever feel the need to try again.
Throughout all the changes, one thing has stayed the same: our friendship is so special.
I am so lucky to have a worm as my friend, my partner and the outlet for my sadistic kinky side.
Happy Anniversary Jaro! I love you <3
9 years and still counting!