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M4A 40 M UK looking for someone to make me stick to my self imposed rules

RSTUK

Switch - currently taking myself on some subby adv
Joined
Jan 5, 2026
Location
UK
Gender
Male
Pride
Rainbow Rainbow
What is your age?
40
What best descbibes you?
Switch
What gender are you?
Male
What age range are you looking for?
Any
What should the other person's gender be?
Any
What are you looking for?
Dom
Where should this person be?
Anywhere
What little extra would you like people to know at a glance?
Most things covered in my post
Hi all. This is a good opportunity for any doms that to see a frustrated guy enduring some discomfort, pain and degradation without having to put the effort into coming up with stuff for them to do or dealing with the neediness 😉. I'm a 40 year old male in decent shape and most people think is pretty attractive. I am in a loving relationship with a busy sex life but there is one problem. I know my way around him too well so he really blows his load and is too spent afterwards for me. Therefore I'm using it as a little subby game. Until I cum in sex with him I have set myself rules and restrictions I have to live by these boil down to:

Very limited cumming. Currently once every 10 days and it has to be painful and/or humiliating with people watching (mainly using pleazgg for this).
Keeping myself horny with edging and watching porn.
In addition while my boyfriend isn't around I have to do the following:
Carry out CBT, humiliation and exposure tasks (again using pleazgg)
Roll a dice for what I can wear around the house and garden (mainly from working from home) this can go right down to nothing but with nipples clamped and a butt plug in etc.
Roll a dice for what I can wear if I go out etc to the shop or to take the dog out. This can go right down to just a pair of small shorts and having to strip off my top on the walk - this is especially challenging as we are in the middle of what is turning out to be a very cold winter.
If I wake up in the middle of the night and can't get to sleep without a cigarette I have to go out naked.

I have been following these rules pretty well but it would be great to have someone that keeps me on track with sticking to them. Of course with picture and video proof provided and them having the ability to set rules they would like or ad hoc tasks.

If you are interested in joining me in my little adventure then you can pm me on here or contact me on kik or telegram my username on both is robbie_leeds.

Looking forward to hearing from you
 
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